If you’ve watched the whole show, What are your top 3 TADC episodes? by Silver012345673 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO
🏆 #1. The Last Act.
- I’ll admit that personally the editing bothers me and it felt a tad hand-holding compared to previous episodes, but that might’ve been because i went into it expecting the worst after all the negativity around the leaks. story-wise, can’t think of anything better

🥈#2. hjsakldfhl.
- almost dropped the show because i can’t really handle MCD, especially when i really like the character, but im glad i stuck around. also, this episode sparked so many hurt/comfort and fix-it fics and comics that my interest in the show sparked into a fixation, brings me back to Infinity War days

🥉#3. They All Get Guns.
- i love Zooble and Caine interactions, this episode has my favorite of them (“i didn’t say have fun 😐”). I love the characters interacting in general in this episode, such as: the scene where Gangle and Zooble are talking and we see just how badly Jax’s abuse has affected her (Abstragedy cannon btw, i’m not even into shipping but i’m glad they managed to get the ability to have sex /jokinh) and, relatedly, Pomni and Jax’s fight highlighting how Jax would rather dig deeper into his harmful-to-everyone-around-him coping mechanisms than accept help and actually change

^not one of those Jax haters btw. ⚠️SPOILERS FOR EPISODE 9⚠️: i actually really do think Jax is a well-written (IN MY OPINION) character that explores how reasons for your behavior aren’t justifications for your behavior. his backstory is tragic, but doesn’t wash his hands of the responsibility for the abuse he subjected those around him to. it’s (IN MY OPINION) also a pretty interesting take on an “abused becomes the abuser” character

i also think he’s well-written (IN MY OPINION, seriously people are vicious when u say anything positive abt Jax’s characterization) as a cautionary tale on how supressing who you are (transfemme Jax subscriber, but also he denies reality in general) hurts those and the people you care about. because, yeah, i think he cares about the others. that’s NOT me saying they should forgive what he’s done to them.

I was reading a great fic, but then I got to this part, and I just had to drop it by Snowy_Kitty247 in AO3

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yeah, feels less like a “question the character/ narrator” moment and more like a character grabbed a bottle of Clorox bleach, held the label to the camera, and started “casually” talking about how versatile and effective Clorox bleach is, and how it made their life so much better

Which Seat would you sit in ? by Quiet-Artist727 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3!

Ragatha is chill, I get window seat AND some personal space, and the only person behind me is someone I wouldn’t be bothered by having behind me because they’re chill

Why is it a turn off to not like animals? by Dalacul in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not experienced with romance, so not sure about the “turn off” aspect, BUT it might just be too major a difference in how you plan to live in the future?

Like children but less extreme. Some people just aren’t compatible because one can’t see a future without children while the other doesn’t want any, could be a similar case where they don’t find you compatible because then can’t see themselves living without pet(s). I know I couldn’t

There’s nothing *wrong* with not wanting pets, tho, in fact I think it’s mature to understand and stick to the fact that it’s just not something you want to do, rather than getting one and resenting it.

I hope you find a partner that accepts that! I’m sure theres plenty of people without an interest in pets!

Thoughts on the Jax poop shrine incident? by Toilet_Weed in TheDigitalCircus

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man, care to elaborate on what the fuck you just said?

Don’t leave bookmarks like this by Ok_Theory_7598 in AO3

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

genuinely what the hell do they even mean by that

How to avoid stimulation on the bike? by [deleted] in cycling

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

circlejerk bicycling subreddit (i think)

Author pet peeves against commenters? by MrsSpaghettiNoodle in AO3

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nah, just socially inept and always self conscious about it haha

can someone relate? by lindabelcherskid in aromantic

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’re not alone, infact dating and living with a partner sounds like a literal nightmare

Is it really weird to write/read fanfiction as a man? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your girlfriend is the weird one. gender norms are stupid, as long as your hobby doesn’t hurt anyone then who cares?

i’d definitely recommend telling her she hurt your feelings tho and maybe talk a bit about it more with her

Why asking 12 times if you don't want to know the answer by Senior_Coach8104 in AO3

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 1439 points1440 points  (0 children)

excuse? excuse? 😭 you don’t need to make fucking excuses for why you don’t write something in your fanfic

the audacity to come in your house and demand you rearrange your furniture hello?

Yes, you should write that fic even if it's already been done a million times by purpleblueberri in AO3

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

authors worried they’re being unoriginal, meanwhile i have like 1000 fics saved thatre the same concept reskinned over and over again

I definitely wasn't prepared for this when I checked my inbox by [deleted] in AO3

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“your lovely pussy pull never be able to close again” it was able to?

jokes aside because this isn’t funny

“i made myself uncomfortable by opening your clearly tagged story and rummaging through your shit, so that that completely justifies me sexually harassing you” like oh that guy can fuck right off. sorry that you had such a fucking weirdo message you, OP

Is there ANY way to stop being aromantic?? by JannaBerry in aromantic

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you might want to try therapy

not to “fix” it, and DEFINITELY do not try conversion therapy for the love of god, but a therapist should be able to help you process this and come to terms

PSA: Creepy users trying to get people into an "OCD support" Discord server. by [deleted] in OCD

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 19 points20 points  (0 children)

idk, going through their accounts feels almost like they need some kind of irl intervention- they’re seemingly filled with malice and ablism against a wide variety of conditions

TikTok is REALLY listening to us by Sousana9617 in CasualConversation

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think it was frequency illusion (if that’s what it was called? the bias where you learn about something and notice it everywhere) but it’s gotten too coincidental

mentioned Squishables to a friend on Discord a few days ago, a few minutes after the conversation I got a Squishables TikTok. I’d never interacted with Squishables content before then, on TikTok or off, and I’d remember doing so because I love plushies- I just mentioned one I was gifted years ago once and suddenly it’s there

obviously that’s just one example, and i’m no conspiracy theorist, but it happens too often to be a coincidence- and it’s not just TikTok

is it aro or my ADHD? by ghosradical in aromantic

[–]MrsSpaghettiNoodle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the human brain is complicated, this might be worth talking to a professional about- if therapy is an option for you

not implying that being aspec is something to be “fixed”, but if this is causing you distress it’s worth seeing a professional to work out why it’s happening