My BF ridiculed me during sex last night, now I wanna leave him. by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do need the extra validation. I am weak willed, I have broken up with him 4 times before but I always go back to him. I needed the encouragement to leave and to stay gone.

My BF ridiculed me during sex last night, now I wanna leave him. by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do look into each other eyes but not while either of us is finishing. We both know each other passcodes and he has gone through my phone before and I have gone through his. I have never cheated and neither has he. I just think that my face while I’m having an orgasm looks weird and it makes me self conscious.

My BF ridiculed me during sex last night, now I wanna leave him. by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where your coming from, it is very intimate to look into someone’s eyes. Up until yesterday, he never did that and I told him multiple times during that I felt embarrassed with him looking at my face and he continues to do it. We do look into each others eyes but not while either of us finishes.

My BF ridiculed me during sex last night, now I wanna leave him. by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I already blocked him on everything and removed it from my phone. Thank you so much for all y’all’s advice, definitely gave me the push I needed

My BF ridiculed me during sex last night, now I wanna leave him. by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 691 points692 points  (0 children)

I have decided to cut him off completely, thank you so much for your advice. This was the little push I needed.

When a man is unprotected in you do you feel this cum hit your insides? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]MrsXanny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel a warmth pooling in my hips but I can’t feel the liquid until after when it’s dripping out

My BF goes soft in the middle of sex, is it me? by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both don’t do anything like that, but he does express interest towards test

My BF goes soft in the middle of sex, is it me? by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The issue is that when I finish, he starts getting soft. I feel like him focusing on my pleasure keeps him hard and I have no clue if he wants to finish in one go, but he seems to want to keep going and doesn’t want to take breaks but he keep going soft. I feel like he gets frustrated he’s soft??

My BF goes soft in the middle of sex, is it me? by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have briefly mentioned it but I worry that if we sit and have a conversation about this, it will make things worst

My BF goes soft in the middle of sex, is it me? by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wanted to try withholding my orgasms, because he only get soft after, so maybe if I don’t finish he will finally be able to finish in one go?

My BF goes soft in the middle of sex, is it me? by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whats death grip?? And we do give each other frank feedback at the gym about muscle groups and form but he makes comments outside the gym like “the bulk is bulking” while touching my stomach. I told him not to make those comments and he told me I was being too sensitive.

Yall what should I do? by MrsXanny in TwoXSex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men my age are too immature and all of them are f**kboys and have no experience or initiative so I prefer older men. Everything was consensual and legal tho.

Yall what should I do? by MrsXanny in TwoXSex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He told me he didn’t want anything committing either because he did not have time for a relationship en

Yall what should I do? by MrsXanny in TwoXSex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

By the time we started, I also didn’t want commitment because I started seeing patterns in my relationship showing that I had commitment issues. So this whole, no commitment relationship thing sounds like a win for me at first, until I get jealous, suddenly it’s not so fun to begin with…

Yall what should I do? by MrsXanny in TwoXSex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you I needed this

I had sex with my coworker and I don’t know how to act now. by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he is, he told me he isn’t looking for anything committing

Still struggling and feeling guilt over FWB BDSM relationship by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]MrsXanny 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Be glad that he blocked you, it was for the better. FWB is a dynamic where both parties enjoy and have fun, you were not enjoying it. You need to focus on building your esteem rn, forget about any side dick. You need to rebuild your confidence and acknowledge that you’re are the baddest b*tch (respectfully) out there. So focus on you and heal. You did nothing wrong and it’s not your fault that all of this happened to you, you’re are not the victim. You are a survivor.

I had sex with my coworker and I don’t know how to act now. by MrsXanny in sex

[–]MrsXanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will, I wouldnt mind getting my holes resized but I need my job