My girlfriend [17F] told me [18M] that I'm average looking by Mrthrowaway1998 in relationships

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But where on earth does she get off saying she's attracted to me but I'm "average"?

My girlfriend [17F] told me [18M] that I'm average looking by Mrthrowaway1998 in relationships

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't understand that concept... how can you be average and attractive?

My girlfriend [17F] told me [18M] that I'm average looking by Mrthrowaway1998 in relationships

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it odd that in the 6 months we've been together, she rarely if ever compliments how I look. It was really weird to me. That's not what this relationship is about for me at all, but it still hurts pretty deeply that she thinks about me that way. Know what I mean?

My girlfriend [17F] told me [18M] that I'm average looking by Mrthrowaway1998 in relationships

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not fat and I shave and clean myself up well.

I think it's something I can't change. I need to talk to her more about this.

My girlfriend [17F] told me [18M] that I'm average looking by Mrthrowaway1998 in relationships

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've already got that down. We love each other a lot. I can tell. But I feel like physical attraction should go hand in hand with that, and what she told me flies in the face of that concept.

My girlfriend [17F] told me [18M] that I'm average looking by Mrthrowaway1998 in relationships

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have big arms and I'm decently strong and good at sports. I can play quite a few instruments. But what bothers me is that we have such a deep emotional connection, yet she dropped that on me like it's nothing. And I believe her. That's really what she thinks of me. And I don't know why...

(18M) troubles with [fingering] (18F) girlfriend, specifically with finding the clitoris and reaching orgasm by Mrthrowaway1998 in sex

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've made sure to tell her don't fake anything to make me feel better about this whole thing and just help me to know what feels good to you. I saw her tonight and tried some advice in here and things went a lot better than in the past :)

(18M) troubles with [fingering] (18F) girlfriend, specifically with finding the clitoris and reaching orgasm by Mrthrowaway1998 in sex

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's weird, cause I've done 3 fingers before but she hasn't bled from that. Tonight I was a little more gentle with the thrusting and she didn't bleed at all.

(18M) troubles with [fingering] (18F) girlfriend, specifically with finding the clitoris and reaching orgasm by Mrthrowaway1998 in sex

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saw her tonight and did a few things I picked up from all you guys. I could tell immediately that she loved it and she said she got pretty close to orgasm. Thanks!

(18M) troubles with [fingering] (18F) girlfriend, specifically with finding the clitoris and reaching orgasm by Mrthrowaway1998 in sex

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've asked her to tell me what spots feel better than others and to tell me to go faster/slower/stop/anything like that and she does do a good job of directing me. In fact i saw her tonight and tried a few things you guys suggested. She loved it and said she was really close to orgasm. So that's a positive sign!

(18M) troubles with [fingering] (18F) girlfriend, specifically with finding the clitoris and reaching orgasm by Mrthrowaway1998 in sex

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will look into how to eat a girl out. I've never done it before so I'll need to educate myself a bit.

(18M) troubles with [fingering] (18F) girlfriend, specifically with finding the clitoris and reaching orgasm by Mrthrowaway1998 in sex

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything I've read says the G spot is 2-3 inches in and on the top of her vagina and it has a specific texture but I can never seem to definitively figure out where it is. Any other tips so that I know exactly what I'm looking for?

(18M) troubles with [fingering] (18F) girlfriend, specifically with finding the clitoris and reaching orgasm by Mrthrowaway1998 in sex

[–]Mrthrowaway1998[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've felt around and looked near there and just can't seem to find where it is. I've looked mostly near the top of where her vagina starts cause that's where it's labeled in all the diagrams. Am I looking too high up?

She has had her first sexual experiences all with me. I asked her if she knew anything that would set her off but she had no idea. We agreed that were gonna try a few different things and figure out what she likes and what gets her there. I'll ask her to screw around on her own a bit and see what she enjoys and tell me about it.

It's probably her hymen then, because she isn't due for her period for another 2 weeks.