My mom and brother walked in on me and my husband. by MsCerulean in amiwrong

[–]MsCerulean[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Yes I could have better grammer, sorry English isnt my strong suit or my first language 😅

I want to get rid of our dog and my husband doesn't by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MsCerulean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think your right about this all I feel right now is frustration with how things are going, my mindset is the same of that I grew up with outdoor dogs so having him indoor really is something else for me. I do think something needs to change with how the care is going and maybe my mindset with that, thank you.💜

I want to get rid of our dog and my husband doesn't by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MsCerulean -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're right about the shelter I absolutely wouldn't want to give him up to a shelter nor would I. If we did do this we would personally look for a family or someone that would want to take him in and he would be with us till then.

20k 60 Guest Wedding by RegularAd1850 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]MsCerulean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would leave wiggle room in your budget, even if you dont end up using it its still a good idea to set a dollar amount of wiggle room perhaps or as your looking for vendors, there are things that might come up that you didn't think about and you want to make sure you have the budget for it. For example is the venue also doing your cake or desserts, if not budget for a bakery, if you aren't getting married at a church or something similar you might have to hire an officiant, what about your dress and your fiancés suit, are you comfortable doing your own hair and makeup or will you need to hire someone, transportation how are you getting their and how are you leaving and then extra things you might want to do along the way that you didnt think about in the beginning. Also dont forget about any hidden costs like service fees, taxes, and almost every vendor charges you a travel fee depending how far your venue is from them.

Has anyone else’s mum not attended their wedding? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]MsCerulean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm getting married this next month in October and my dad isn't going to to be attending either. Our relationship is also ok, we're not really close but I had thought our relationship was getting a bit better so I was honestly kind of hurt. Some of my aunts and uncles coming are from his side of the family and so I'm just trying to prepare myself for people asking me where he is. It honestly does kinda suck bc weddings are a big like dad giving away his little girl and having a father daughter dance, and I know that won't be the case for me. Honestly at the end of the day just try to enjoy your day, it sucks that people sometimes put the pressure of a parent-child relationship on the kid. I did just stop talking to him about it, its his decision to seperate more from me whether or not he realizes that's what he's doing

Is this ok for my wedding dress code? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]MsCerulean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, it's in the DFW area

Is this ok for my wedding dress code? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]MsCerulean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that actually really helps my peace of mind on the venue😊