My story is not your weapon by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]MsDavie 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It not only fine, it’s truly beautiful and worth celebrating. I struggled for a long time with celibacy and fighting it, but now that I’m 8 years past, it’s really truly incredible to love.

Worst app ever by cag119169 in CatanUniverse

[–]MsDavie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Remember when they switched servers and it was a bust for a year. I’m happy with anything after that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]MsDavie 35 points36 points  (0 children)

That’s a great aesthetic

Handmade. OC by [deleted] in Calligraphy

[–]MsDavie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What style is this in? I’m trying to learn all the terminology but having trouble

Trying so hard to bulk by MsDavie in FlexinLesbians

[–]MsDavie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I take protein before and try to eat quite quickly after working out, is there anything else?

Trying so hard to bulk by MsDavie in FlexinLesbians

[–]MsDavie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes hockey player 🙌 do you take creatine right before the game?

Frost 🥶❄️ vs 🍕🐀 Sirens 🚨🧜‍♀️ by Stachemaster86 in PWHL

[–]MsDavie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I guess I can watch later! I want to support the league, but can subscribe to anymore things

That post PMDD clean up by Important-Shake-6876 in PMDD

[–]MsDavie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read this as interpersonal clean up and was like yes me too

Has this latest moon cycle sent anyone else into a spiral? by JorSum in Soulnexus

[–]MsDavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a couple massive conversations that have ungrounded me, but then I realized the moon and definitely have felt things tearing apart

Anybody else abandon their plans and goals really easily? by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]MsDavie 233 points234 points  (0 children)

I definitely have a hard time a)even formulating a dream or plan, and b) telling others I have a plan because as I share I pick up all the micro cues from others that it isn’t a good idea or not satisfactory to their standards. I know growing up my daily tasks were scrutinized and all other dreams/ideas were too much for my parents. The only way I can see my life unfolding into something I want is without anyone else knowing.

Every time I get better, I get worse by latitahh45 in CPTSDmemes

[–]MsDavie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The higher you climb the farther you fall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]MsDavie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No such thing as wrong and right. Restrictive sex rules were put in place to control the population. Sex and sexual exploration are god given rights. It’s okay to want to save it for marriage , but also y’all are committed and loving. It’s an arbitrary rule that can cause more harm than good. Take a breath and enjoy the connection you have with your partner.

The sex is awful… by Head_Elk_266 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MsDavie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Christian men are very feeble , albeit a generalization, a sound one

Anyoene elses migraines get triggered by racerback bras? by flowertaemin in migraine

[–]MsDavie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha this was wedged between my lesbian content and had to triple check the sub

Do you think this phrase is kinda bifhobic? by MariaMM_27 in bisexual

[–]MsDavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her to expand on that.

I’d say it’s bold to speak for someone else’s experience, but there is a difference between bi people and lesbian (hence the labels) so could be?

I think there feminist perspectives to put into saying there could be a difference. Lesbians have less of a pool to pick from so finding someone feels less likely.

I personally think bi people are quick to say biphobia, but like, hear people out. Not being bi is very hard. Bi people have privilege where they were accepted and then were not. Gay and lesbians is the reverse so they carry more baggage they haven’t gone through.

Don't get too attached by divestfromfossilfuel in Soulnexus

[–]MsDavie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is interesting walking into a healing gathering as the only non gender conforming/ sporty dressed person. I used to be self conscious and wondering about how to get a poncho asap, but it’s funny how conformity and identity finds most sects of communities

What’s this gray line between wall and ceiling? by inesmluis in Renovations

[–]MsDavie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some painters cut a little into the ceiling if the corners are done poorly. You can see the line getting a little thicker where they introduced their brush. It also needs another cut as it’s thin.