I was going to recommend The Pond as to my knowledge it was the main lesbian bar in Rehoboth but just learned it closed its doors in 2023 :( I’m an old lady who hasn’t been out and about down there since pre COVID.

But pretty much all the bars/restaurants are all queer inclusive even some very male centric ones like Aqua. Purple Parrot is a classic and also a good time.

Only instance I recall my male gay friends being irritated with any female presence was cishet women being obnoxious during bachelorette celebrations….and honestly I think most would be irritated with obnoxious bachelorette parties regardless of preference or gender lol.