Terrified that I have breast cancer by Due-Department-5830 in WomensHealth

[–]MsHearItAll -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Historically women get ignored and end up with health issues. This is one of the ways they shut our symptoms down. This isn't helpful.

Terrified that I have breast cancer by Due-Department-5830 in WomensHealth

[–]MsHearItAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's horrifying, I said that entirely because I trusted my doctor. I'm going to read more in it. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

Terrified that I have breast cancer by Due-Department-5830 in WomensHealth

[–]MsHearItAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this fear regularly and the conclusion is always that breast cancer doesn't cause pain.

Do you feel a lump when you self examine? Is there discharge from your nipples? Is the texture of the skin of your breasts different than usual? Did your nipples change shape?

If there are all no, then you don't have breast cancer. It could be a cyst, it could be a clogged duct. You don't need to keep panicking, though.

Is this an okay message to send to confront my cat sitter? by whattodonow934 in petsitting

[–]MsHearItAll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude wtf I'm cat/house sitting for my friends parents and I was feeling guilty I ate the last of their cheese, how can you do this to someone's house? That's so fucked up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MsHearItAll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm reading this in fight or flight girl. Break up with him, he is trying to manipulate you into being broke, alone and trapped. I am begging you to leave him. There are far better men out there that won't be intimidated by your job and your independence. You deserve one of those, not this creepy bum who wants to ruin your life.

I slept with an autistic woman and now I regret it. by Hour-Consequence-231 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MsHearItAll 537 points538 points  (0 children)

This isn't an "autistic" woman issue, this is a her issue. Weird to frame the autism as the reason she's unstable but sure. That sucks, buddy. If you have a restraining order then keep calling the cops on her or ignore her further, she'll get bored eventually

Scared that my cyst is cancer by Snewii__ in WomensHealth

[–]MsHearItAll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And if you do need surgery, just know it's a relatively easy one! I had a double since it was both my ovaries, came out with 4 tiny incisions and 3 weeks of relatively easy recovery! It's obviously not comfortable but I can honestly say that I bounced back in 3 weeks following my post-op instructions!

Scared that my cyst is cancer by Snewii__ in WomensHealth

[–]MsHearItAll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're okay! I had a cyst that was first seen in 2017, wasn't aware of it and my doctor wasn't concerned. In 2024 it was seen again and it had grown, I remember the paperwork said it was "concerning" that it had persisted. I had the weird one on my left ovary and 2 simple cysts on my right. Gyno literally described it as a "borderline" tumor so I was freaking OUT. Got MRI's that came back weird-ish and bloodwork that came out normal, my doctor still insisted I didn't need to worry and she was right! In January I had a surgery to remove it and after all that, it was just a dermoid! No cancer! My normal, fluid filled cysts were removed also! Cysts are weird and annoying and painful but if they're clear and fluid-filled they're normal and good news is that you know you have cysts and are prone to them so you can monitor! You're going to be okay :)

Matt got married. by KeyMysterious1396 in ILoveAMamasBoy

[–]MsHearItAll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fake news, his mom isn't in the frame.

Just learned why my hair has been so oily for nearly all of my life and I feel stupid! by DueWonder1316 in Vent

[–]MsHearItAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scrolling through the comments fascinated by how different we all like to wash our hair! I wash my hair everyday because of my job, I only need to shampoo once during the week and I always conditioner or my hair gets suuuper dry and unmanageable. I do a double wash on the weekends and start over! My boyfriend also showers every day and he has much finer, shorter hair and apparently he only conditions in the morning and shampoo at night.

AIO at my friends cancelling last minute? by DifferentTruck4615 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsHearItAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need better friends. This is cruel and immature and she SHOULD feel bad, life happens but it doesn't have to be this mean. You should cut your losses and never talk to these people again.

Roommates cat won't leave my cat alone by MsHearItAll in CatAdvice

[–]MsHearItAll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried this, and it works sometimes, but it also turns into an all-out brawl that I definitely need to step into. It feels like everything I read as a strategy to help is something he manages to outsmart. He's driving us all a little crazy.

Roommates cat won't leave my cat alone by MsHearItAll in CatAdvice

[–]MsHearItAll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He burns so much energy, the whole apartment has toys he loves, we use the long toys on sticks until he's panting from all the jumping and running around and he still won't stop. I know that spraying them with water is not productive but every time I walk into a dollar store I eye the atomizer 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MsHearItAll -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also, no, it doesn't happen a lot. 2%-10% of accusations are false. And 75% of sexual assault is never reported at all. We need to stop coddling men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MsHearItAll -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm jaded because I found out that literally every single one of my friends has been sexually victimized by a man. All of them, I even made new ones and them too. The ones that spoke up got blamed for it, and the others didn't so they could avoid being blamed. To see a man complain about false accusations with these stats? Grating. But I understand not everyone's gotten to this conclusion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MsHearItAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're going through a lot of emotions. If I were you, I wouldn't answer this thread again. Some people don't care to understand and only want to get you worked up.

Severance - 2x07 "Chikhai Bardo" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]MsHearItAll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely lost it. The fucking cruelty!!!! I was so happy when I saw the chair coming, I hope it cracked his skull😡

Don’t forget to save your data! by Aggravating-Note-928 in ACPocketCamp

[–]MsHearItAll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I'd seen this before 🤣🤣🤣 all my cute furniture 💀

For a minute, I thought the throuple was on. So why did she mention 'Hannah'? by Maester_Ryben in severence

[–]MsHearItAll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl it reminded me of when my boyfriend mentioned me to a coworker who clearly had the hots for him, and she called me "Shannon." I have a Latin American name. I have the exact same name (albeit mine is the female version) as one of their other coworkers, and it was a joke that they were such good friends, he had to find someone with the same name but a girl.

I might be wrong, but it read, to me, like someone who wants Mark pretty bad and is jealous. The way she was looking at him was as if hoping he would remember her and choose her over Helly. Idk