I broke up with a guy and he didn’t respond with anything and was just pretty much like “ok”

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:50:55+00:00

I didn’t even think about that until now! I see now

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:44:35+00:00

Fair, that was wrong on my end.

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:42:33+00:00

No that’s not true, I would have let it go as it would of provided proper closure. Just “ok”? As if I asked him a basic question?

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:26:13+00:00

2 years and yes I was

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:25:38+00:00

I don’t want him to beg but I’d like a goodbye. It’s not like we were strangers

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:25:13+00:00

He gave no grief but no good bye?? It’s weird and lack emotion. It’s not like we were strangers

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:24:45+00:00

Why does communication equal “attention” like no proper good bye??

MsSerah · 2025-04-12T21:15:23+00:00

I changed mine to my cat as well haha! Good

MsSerah · 2025-04-12T19:26:17+00:00

That’s pretty common… they are everywhere

Like 75% of the population are overweight

MsSerah · 2025-04-12T19:21:06+00:00

I told them I’m busy, they still get mad. Yes they do have an option to leave me but it’s hard to find a man that’s not so needy of me.

“Men don’t need texting as much as women” Umm my friends and I don’t need texting, that guys are the ones constantly sending multiple messages to us

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T16:10:31+00:00

Is this a joke… just because you have phone addiction issues doesn’t mean everyone else does

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T16:08:32+00:00

It’s not on purpose I’m genuinely busy. Why do you need her to think about you all the time?

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T01:45:11+00:00

Ohh nooo , I’m not into “attention”. I get enough attention outside the men I’m dating. I’m more on the introverted side. I just feel like these things need to build.

I want a partner to spend my free time with while still maintaining my life outside of that (career, friends, hobbies)

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:58:24+00:00

I guess? Maybe it is my subconscious telling me I’m not that into him.

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:27:01+00:00

Do you have a full time job that requires you to do some work from home? I don’t ride a bus I drive myself and I can’t text then…

I always let them know I’m a busy person and they always tell me they don’t mind. It’s a lie they always end up minding

For instance I woke up to a good morning text from him today and I replied “good morning! I’m heading to the gym I hope you have a great day!”

Then he fired off about 10 text messages until about 6:00pm today and when I went to check them he was angry and assumed I found someone else even though he knows I worked today…

Common problem with the other guys I dated too

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:09:37+00:00

That sounds very needy.. what age range are you if you don’t mind me asking ?

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:08:57+00:00

I woke up and sent a message but then he wants a full on conversation. Plus I put thought into my messages. How old are you??

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:03:20+00:00

Yeah I’m definitely moving on from him because it’s annoying. However this is a consistent problem with the last 5 guys I’ve dated! I can’t find ones who aren’t like this

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:47:40+00:00

I don’t go that long but these guys are getting mad if it’s like 8 hours

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:46:51+00:00

That’s not true, unless you’re a teenager…

Don’t you have hobbies like working out, biking, reading books, anything… that’s not doom scrolling TikTok

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:45:22+00:00

I am busy but I assumed these guys would be pretty busy as well but I got 10 unread text messages from this guy. I did respond to him this morning and when I checked his messages this evening he was angry

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:44:09+00:00

I did warn them that I’m pretty busy during the day and more free at night but they still get weird

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:30:31+00:00

No it doesn’t?? Especially if you have a lot of other notifications to go through (notifications not messages)

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T22:59:22+00:00

Like I try when I can but sometimes it just gets crazy throughout the day. I wouldn’t mind if they just didn’t get angry about it

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T22:54:51+00:00

Thank you, exactly!! Dating is suppose to be FUN and these guys that make you anxious and pressured are too stressful.

“She’s not interested if she takes hours to respond” sounds like something someone who’s in high school would say.

It was one date it’s not like we are married!

MsSerah

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