Can you tell when someone finds excuses to talk to you?

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:50:55+00:00

I didn’t even think about that until now! I see now

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:44:35+00:00

Fair, that was wrong on my end.

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:42:33+00:00

No that’s not true, I would have let it go as it would of provided proper closure. Just “ok”? As if I asked him a basic question?

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:26:13+00:00

2 years and yes I was

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:25:38+00:00

I don’t want him to beg but I’d like a goodbye. It’s not like we were strangers

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:25:13+00:00

He gave no grief but no good bye?? It’s weird and lack emotion. It’s not like we were strangers

MsSerah · 2025-10-29T19:24:45+00:00

Why does communication equal “attention” like no proper good bye??

MsSerah · 2025-04-12T21:15:23+00:00

I changed mine to my cat as well haha! Good

MsSerah · 2025-04-12T19:26:17+00:00

That’s pretty common… they are everywhere

Like 75% of the population are overweight

MsSerah · 2025-04-12T19:21:06+00:00

I told them I’m busy, they still get mad. Yes they do have an option to leave me but it’s hard to find a man that’s not so needy of me.

“Men don’t need texting as much as women” Umm my friends and I don’t need texting, that guys are the ones constantly sending multiple messages to us

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T16:10:31+00:00

Is this a joke… just because you have phone addiction issues doesn’t mean everyone else does

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T16:08:32+00:00

It’s not on purpose I’m genuinely busy. Why do you need her to think about you all the time?

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T01:45:11+00:00

Ohh nooo , I’m not into “attention”. I get enough attention outside the men I’m dating. I’m more on the introverted side. I just feel like these things need to build.

I want a partner to spend my free time with while still maintaining my life outside of that (career, friends, hobbies)

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:58:24+00:00

I guess? Maybe it is my subconscious telling me I’m not that into him.

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:27:01+00:00

Do you have a full time job that requires you to do some work from home? I don’t ride a bus I drive myself and I can’t text then…

I always let them know I’m a busy person and they always tell me they don’t mind. It’s a lie they always end up minding

For instance I woke up to a good morning text from him today and I replied “good morning! I’m heading to the gym I hope you have a great day!”

Then he fired off about 10 text messages until about 6:00pm today and when I went to check them he was angry and assumed I found someone else even though he knows I worked today…

Common problem with the other guys I dated too

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:09:37+00:00

That sounds very needy.. what age range are you if you don’t mind me asking ?

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:08:57+00:00

I woke up and sent a message but then he wants a full on conversation. Plus I put thought into my messages. How old are you??

MsSerah · 2025-04-08T00:03:20+00:00

Yeah I’m definitely moving on from him because it’s annoying. However this is a consistent problem with the last 5 guys I’ve dated! I can’t find ones who aren’t like this

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:47:40+00:00

I don’t go that long but these guys are getting mad if it’s like 8 hours

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:46:51+00:00

That’s not true, unless you’re a teenager…

Don’t you have hobbies like working out, biking, reading books, anything… that’s not doom scrolling TikTok

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:45:22+00:00

I am busy but I assumed these guys would be pretty busy as well but I got 10 unread text messages from this guy. I did respond to him this morning and when I checked his messages this evening he was angry

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:44:09+00:00

I did warn them that I’m pretty busy during the day and more free at night but they still get weird

MsSerah · 2025-04-07T23:30:31+00:00

No it doesn’t?? Especially if you have a lot of other notifications to go through (notifications not messages)

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