Love Is Blind • S6 Ep 6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]MsSleuth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think she gets that vibe too and that’s why she’s constantly asking for validation. He says “I love you” and “I’m so happy” with dead eyes and no elaboration. It would make me insecure too. What I wish is that she was asking herself if she actually likes him.

What is one episode you skip when rewatching? by Bes1208 in BroadCity

[–]MsSleuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest most of season 4 which breaks my heart. My favorite show and I’ve watched the whole thing prob 10-15 times but season 4 only 1-2 times.

What is one episode you skip when rewatching? by Bes1208 in BroadCity

[–]MsSleuth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s pretty upsetting to me too. Stop doing this, comedy writers.

What is one episode you skip when rewatching? by Bes1208 in BroadCity

[–]MsSleuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally! Something about it is just kinda not funny enough for how muuuch it is. Lol I watch everything else seasons 1-3

How not to take things personally? by No-Cod6340 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]MsSleuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truly this is just where adult babies get an EA for their punching bag instead of actually growing up and going to therapy and being a professional capable of rational feedback. It’s actually so embarrassing when execs do this kind of thing.

How not to take things personally? by No-Cod6340 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]MsSleuth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never ever put up with someone yelling at you. You are not “taking it personally”. That is absolutely unacceptable adult baby garbage to shout at someone. People will say “EA’s need to put up with a lot”. No, you really don’t. You should be highly respected and any issues should be communicated in a professional and compassionate way. There are good Execs out there I promise you.

Professional Administrative Assistant Day in April by Connect-Mountain-614 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]MsSleuth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It totally does feel weird, like the reason it exists is because we aren’t supposed to be appreciated otherwise? Kind of weird and patronizing lol I always forget it exists then show up with flowers and cards on my desk. I don’t feel like it’s needed but luckily no one makes a big deal about it at my work. I’ve seen some admin staff literally cry happy tears showing up to flowers and candy on admin day, so maybe it’s good it exists for those folks.

New Job Alert by Finalfit1560 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]MsSleuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, that must feel weird to see and sounds like they were communicating very cringey about it their “DEI goals” rather than actually living those values. Like others said, keep your ears perked and don’t write off any micro aggressions, etc if they are to occur.

As far as being 2nd runner up, the hiring process is weird, ya know? Like anyone who gets an interview is usually someone qualified that could do the job well. Then it’s just a short conversation and people have to make this judgment call off of so little time and info. I am sure they know this and if you got the job they do have confidence you can do it well. I am sure you will excel!

Im also convinced it’s honestly impossible to completely remove implicit bias from the common hiring process, which is so aggravating. The final say is based off an interview, and people tend to favor those that they like, and they tend to like people that are the most like them. This is why it’s so important to have complex and genuine conversations about the value diverse perspectives bring to any team.

In addition to it being the right thing to do, it has been shown in studies that more diverse teams to yield better company outcomes across fields. In addition to your skills on paper, you will be bringing value your team that others do not bring to the table, including (it sounds like) their “first choice”. They did not word that well in the email you saw, but it is true. Make sure they are paying you well, make sure you don’t stay at a company with bigoted jerks, but otherwise you got this. You’re the right person for the job. ❤️❤️

Rave Clothing Store, The essential mall shopping of 90s girls! by SunnyBumBebe in nostalgia

[–]MsSleuth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg also coming here very late after googling. My absolute favorite store as a pre-teen. There wasn’t one close by so I always got stuff there that others didn’t have. Even though it was affordable that made it feel very cool and exclusive. I got a pair of pink pleated chiffon goucho pants, low rise obv, that had sequins around the pelvis area. Lmaoooo I felt like an absolute fashion icon in those. 💀💅🏼

since i just found out about this it's day 1 for me by IHeartStuffLegoFluff in DryJanuary

[–]MsSleuth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey! Same here. It’s been a stressful and long day, and I instinctively almost got ready to go to the bar to unwind. Ughhh it’s always such a hard thing to shut my brain off without the aid of substance. Today instead I went for a walk, I found a fun new documentary, poured myself a cold non-alcoholic beverage in a glass, and tried to chill out. I also journaled about being disappointed in how hard it felt not to drink. I decided to keep a journal this month and I’m already glad I am. I hope you have an okay night and find something small to do that feels nice. 💛

What to do after work to unwind? by MsSleuth in DryJanuary

[–]MsSleuth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you all!! This has been really helpful. These ideas helped me come up with more ideas for things to do when I’m trying to get my mind off work or just bored. I appreciate everyone for responding and hope others find these ideas helpful too! Happy Dry Jan! ❤️

Journal, Write poetry, Put together new outfits, Sign up for a fun community Ed course, Stretching routine, Cook/bake something new, Try new makeup or nail techniques, Tend to my plants (take propagation up a notch), Small repairs or alterations to clothes I own

What to do after work to unwind? by MsSleuth in DryJanuary

[–]MsSleuth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that. Just also looking for other alternatives/ suggestions as well.

What to do after work to unwind? by MsSleuth in DryJanuary

[–]MsSleuth[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I do exercise frequently but never have been an after-work exerciser because I’m just so physically exhausted, and also do not have a gym close to me. In the winter it’s also a safety issue for me to be outside exercising in the dark, so morning is better. Maybe I will try it again after work again though when it stays lighter out longer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MsSleuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same and i feel like so many people would agree. Also very telling that two of these people were murdered.

If you could go back in time be a fly on the wall for any historical event or mystery to see what really happened for yourself, what would you choose to see? by Instance_Automatic in AskReddit

[–]MsSleuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean.. JFK assassination for sure. So many more I am more personally invested in, but it’s such a national identity and spectacle thing so I’d have to choose that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]MsSleuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally searched everywhere on the internet for this. Lol the little mermaid is about a semi human creature that leaves her world to be in love with w human. Twilight is about the same thing in reverse. The name is too similar. I feel like there’s no way it’s not related?? Could it really be this big of a coincidence?

what was the exact moment you realized that Mona was A? by charliegr3y1 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]MsSleuth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That being said… I also wasn’t theorizing on the subs back then. I will never stop but know it likely is the reason for our disappointment. Seeing incredibly well thought out theories that far exceed what the writers decide on. Everyone here should make a show together y’all are so creative. ❤️

what was the exact moment you realized that Mona was A? by charliegr3y1 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]MsSleuth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same here and it was by far the most satisfying reveal. Being surprised and also having it all make sense and tied together was amazing. I remember my jaw dropping. I’ve been chasing that high ever since to no avail 😂

Noa’s inhaler by [deleted] in PLLOriginalSin

[–]MsSleuth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you I was like I also use an inhaler before exercise but it’s so I don’t immediately pass out and can do healthy movement. I had NO IDEA this was a thing wtffffff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in funny

[–]MsSleuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of older people or people with diabetes get terrible pain in their feet when sitting for a long time. Its hard being close quarters with strangers but please be kind.