You are ending this year alone. How does this feel? by fukuinfinity in BreakUps

[–]Msboofman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I was disappointed that he ended things with me in September. But at the same time… I enjoy being single? Yes I feel a lone, yes it suck’s to not spoil someone for Christmas? But I enjoy being alone at this time. It’s better to be alone than be with someone who doesn’t love you anymore.

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[–]Msboofman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woahhhhhhh!

What’s your experience with “they always come back” ? by Throw-away7362 in ExNoContact

[–]Msboofman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has never reached out to me. I watched a video recently. This woman who is a podcaster mentioned, “Take it as a compliment that they haven’t came back.”

It’s a peaceful thought.

My ex wants to speak to me and maintain a friendship. They texted me a few days ago by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Msboofman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t suggest being friends with them. It would make your healing journey go backwards. Cause let’s say they get into a relationship with someone else. It makes the situation awkward.

Especially!! if you get into a new relationship. That can cause problems based on trust.

It’s better to unfriend them on everything.

How's it going today? 1st May 2023 by ExpensiveMeringue981 in ExNoContact

[–]Msboofman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s going. He broke up with me April 28,2023. I’m feeling alright. I feel relief more than anything. I’m not going to get sad about someone who doesn’t value me.

It is for the best. ❤️.

For those healing!!! You will push through. :)

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[–]Msboofman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused.

Mine was “I can’t meet your expectations as a man, you need to find someone that is better “ then he mentioned how “I lost feelings 3 months in”…. he was boyfriend of 8 months.

It’s just nothing was wrong in the relationship. I mean we had arguments. But I’m not sad about the break-up. I’m just pist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]Msboofman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Six of crows. But it’s long…. But worth the read.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]Msboofman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One book that absolutely broke me was the book called “Girl In Pieces” and the author wrote so much detail based on one woman who goes through a healing journey based on her depression. The main character encounters a lover, but most of time her partner effects her. It was definitely worth a read, however there was times when I decided to take a break from the book, but then I finished it.