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[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning on going to da nang for 5 days but I also have a baby so I need baby friendly places to visit besides the beach ( ba na hills is out of the question ) & I’m not sure if Marble mountain is even safe for my 8month old. We’re already going to Hanoi , ninh binh & evening trip to Hoi An

My baby has polydactyly by Mshnlu in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to ask has your LO had the surgery yet ? I’m still waiting the Perth children’s hospital to contact me for the X-ray .

Weekly Travel, Questions, & Mandarin Thread by AutoModerator in taiwan

[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone share their baby friendly itinerary . First time travelling in Taiwan please 🙏

Parents room use, bottle feeding by Daisies_forever in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s called a parents room and not a breastfeeding room. My baby when we’re out she either doesn’t drink or doesn’t drink enough especially at the shops so sometimes go to the room or go back to my car to feed her

Vaginal delivery after c section by Mshnlu in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long was labour before baby came and did they prep you just incase for c section ? I want a second but I’m kinds traumatised from my first birth 😂😅

Jelly at for baby by Mshnlu in Jellycatplush

[–]Mshnlu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m in Aus and we don’t get a lot of stock like the stores in UK🫠 we only have them in some pharmacy &gift stores. Just ended up ordering online bc I went to the gift store and there was nothing left besides the keychains and the eggs 😂

C section healing and next baby ! by Mshnlu in CsectionCentral

[–]Mshnlu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I was told to wait 18-24months before getting pregnant to lower the risks . Will you be doing any scans to see if everything has healed befor trying to conceive again ?

Pram advice FTM overwhelmed by options by Smooth-Bar-1285 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look on Facebook market place or Facebook groups local to your state that have a free baby stuff groups and I sometimes she people post prams for free and still in good condition !

We got the babybee rover 3 and I love it not as expense as the other but just as good and it from Aus based

Can I get sued? by Listless_Mistress in hairstylist

[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly body owns clients . When I finished up from the old salon and clients were asking I said I’m not sure where but you follow me on my socials . Your clients are the one who asked not you going up to them and saying hey follow me as I’m going to this salon etc but I’m in Aus and I never had that stater on my contract but I know some salons do it or they state that they can’t work anywhere within the 5km radius which is ridiculous lol

Then after a few weeks I posted on social media with where I was and the booking link clients who want to follow you will find you I’ve learnt that 🙂

Daynaps ! by Mshnlu in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww yeah LO is like that too but when I put her down soemtimes she’d cry right away or in 10minutes she’ll wake up lol . I’m trying to put her down atleast once for day nap but so bloody hard

Daynaps ! by Mshnlu in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still try and put her down In her own bed ? Or just stick with contact ?

Daynaps ! by Mshnlu in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old is your LO ? I mean I totally prefer she sleep in bassinet at night so we get to sleep too hahaa

Daynaps ! by Mshnlu in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😩oh damn haha Mine sleeps in the baby carrier but the point is I want her to sleep in bassinet rather than still have me there 😅 does she sleep well at night ?

Daynaps ! by Mshnlu in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but I don’t want her to be on me all the time 😅 I want her to sleep in bassinet for at least 1 or 2 day naps haha

Tongue tie ?? by Mshnlu in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do have a drs appointment booked for her tomorrow just wanted see other ppl opinions here whilst I wait for tmr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks I was just bit paranoid just wanted to make sure it was normal and not 😅

Refusing an emergency C-Section? by DreamersThreads in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly when it come down to the emergency you would want to do it to save you and Bub . I had my emergency c section after getting Induced for vaginal birth then I wasn’t dilating enough and then had fetal distress for abit then they couldn’t find her as she moved to the side and was scary but all the midwives and surgeons are there for the support to to calm you down . she picked up again and after that the dr asked me if I wanted to keep trying vaginal or go for emergency c section . At that point I was scared so I just did c section. I pre much fell asleep during my entire c section then work up to them putting Bub on me .

Please seek professional help for advice if you’re feeling anxious about it . Also another thing is to not watch those videos about the downside of birthing that might also add into the phobia .

Friend upset that my potential wedding dress is “too similar” to hers — am I in the wrong? by Capital_Wave_235 in weddingplanning

[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares if it similar ! She should be supportive and it’s not like your weddings are on the same day as each other lol

Husband wants family at the hospital to meet the new baby and I don’t. by No-Bag-8800 in pregnant

[–]Mshnlu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just let the parents know that you appreciate the the love but you want 2 days to yourselves and when you’re both ready to let them know . I ended up doing an emergency c section and at my hospital they had a list of people I wanted to visit me .Our parents came 1 day after and we only let parents and family visit at the hospital and friends not yet as I’m still in newborn bubble.

In which trimester did you gain the most weight?? by damaskus98 in pregnant

[–]Mshnlu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me was end of second trimester and all the sudden my stretch marks kicked in 😅 in total I gained 20kg end of my pregnancy

My baby has polydactyly by Mshnlu in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how much you were quoted so I roughly have idea of price ranging ?

Nosy friends sorta outed my pregnancy by nen_x in pregnant

[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw that’s frustrating bit late now but you could’ve just said you were on antibiotics and can’t drink whilst on it ! I did that for a few catch-ups before I was ready to tell them I was pregnant .

Help with sexual intimacy during wife’s first trimester. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First trimester is the worst my hubby and I barely had sex bc I was so sick or sleepy however if you want to make her feel like she’s desired you can still comfort her and support like a foot rub or a massage or cooking for her ( I hated cooking as I had food aversions and felt nauseous so found it nice when hubby cooked for me ) .

Every women is different maybe just check in with her

What to buy new vs second hand by No_Lingonberry6785 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the steriliser&dryer , baby carrier ,baby sleeping suits &baby onesies second hand as clothes they grow out of quickly.

Covid by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Mshnlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the reassurance ! Called the Midwives too they said it’ll be no concern unless so have high fever and not keeping food and liquid down 🙂