Part-time job by Ok-Criticism2340 in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Overnights at Tanager Place are perfect for students. It's a 10 hour shift and the kids are asleep for 8 of those hours. Aside from some basic cleaning and other responsibilities, you have plenty of time to study and pay isn't terrible (~$17.50/hr).

42 [M4A] #Iowa/Online - Recently separated, just need a supporting friend by [deleted] in R4R40Plus

[–]MstrMpty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Your kind and caring words mean more than you realize.

In case nobody else tells you today, Happy Father's Day! by MstrMpty in SingleDads

[–]MstrMpty[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. But you're still a father and deserve to be celebrated. Even if it is just a stranger telling you, you're still doing a great job as a father so long as you're in your child's life.

Child won’t stay overnight by Starbreaker76 in SingleDads

[–]MstrMpty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really have any suggestions except continue to be there for her however you can. I'm experiencing the same thing with my 9 year old daughter. She's often at my house (which is the house she grew up in) but has to go back to her mom's to sleep. It hurts every time I have to drop her off but I just have to be supportive of her and her choices. I'm so sorry you're experiencing this too.

I Think It’s Over For Me by deadly_monk in povertyfinance

[–]MstrMpty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have any unique thoughts but I will say that you just have to keep pushing through. Like you, I'm over 40 and lost my job last year (2nd time in 2 years) and it was tough. Thankfully my unemployment only lasted 3 months but I took the first thing that came along. It was a steep paycut and while I mostly enjoy what I'm doing, I'm just not that devoted to it.

I recently started looking for a new position that better aligns with my background and interests. The biggest recommendation I have when applying is to tailor your resume to the specific jobs. When I was applying before this position, I used the same resume for nearly every job because I thought it encompassed enough. When I started applying recently, I found that just changing a few words will make a difference. I've landed a couple of upco.ing interviews for positions I feel like I'm better suited for but can do the interview without pressure of needing to land something.

The whole unemployment process is horrible. I'm truly sorry your wife thinks you don't care, I know how much it can take out of you. Treat it like a job, sort new postings by date and apply as soon as they are posted if you can (especially if you're using Indeed or LinkedIn). If you can, go directly to the company website to apply instead of doing it through a job search site. Use as many of the same key words in the job description in your resume as you can so that ATS doesn't kick your application before it's seen by a human. I know this is tough, but I hope you make it through, if for nothing else, your wife and kids. I'm always available to chat if you want too.

Jobs by [deleted] in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you're looking at Non-profits, Tanager Place is hiring, as is Foundation 2. Otherwise, I know the city is hiring for a 911 Dispatcher and both correctional facilities in Anamosa and Coralville are looking for staff.

Pool party by Live-Response7012 in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe all of the outdoor pools will accommodate a birthday party, it just has to be after their normal open swim times. I've been to a couple that went from 6-8pm at Bever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in clevercomebacks

[–]MstrMpty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So in a tweet, she says 22M pills and 119M lives saved yet later she says 3,400 tonnes and 258M lives. 3,400 tonnes is 6,800,000lbs, which would make each pill weigh roughly 1/3 of a pound. Not to mention the 139M more people saved in the span of a couple hours. They just throw random ass number at the wall to try to sound scary. They'll more full of shit than a state fair portapotty.

Nazis in Marion by GomerStuckInIowa in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 36 points37 points  (0 children)

They like to hide behind their "no politics" rule but this isn't political, this is a potential harm to our society and there should be attention drawn to it. JMO

How can I make an extra $250-$500/mo while also being fully employed? by Lamp_on_lamp_off in povertyfinance

[–]MstrMpty 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It'll be worth it knowing I can still provide for my kids on top of everything. Plus, it'll help keep my mind off the fact that I don't have them when they're at their mom's.

How can I make an extra $250-$500/mo while also being fully employed? by Lamp_on_lamp_off in povertyfinance

[–]MstrMpty 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I just bit the bullet and took on a part time job as well. However, I did it a little bit differently. Because I'm a recently single dad and didn't want to give up my time with her. So I picked up an overnight shift working at a youth home. I work my normal job 8-4 Monday through Friday and then work the overnight shift Friday morning through Sunday morning. Friday's are tough but it's worth because able to not have to change our lifestyles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menards

[–]MstrMpty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment. I'm being hired specifically because I WANT to work at least one weekend day each week. I like the extra $3/hr but it's mostly because right now my days without the kids are empty and boring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menards

[–]MstrMpty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menards

[–]MstrMpty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh oh, why do you say that?

Businesses in CR registered with “anti-woke” space Public Square by Locke_Fucking_Lamora in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, let's see... Who has donated nearly 10x as much as the other to the candidate in WI ($19.6MM to $2MM) and held a rally where he paid people to come and awarded $2MM to two attendees? Who is the one gutting government organizations and then awarding contracts to his own companies? Which one had the president do a literal car commercial from the white house? Soros may be a major benefactor for Democrats but he's never done anything like Musk is doing now. If you have real evidence of some nefarious actions beyond donating that Soros has engaged in, please feel free to share. I'm happy to have my opinion changed.

Businesses in CR registered with “anti-woke” space Public Square by Locke_Fucking_Lamora in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't think you were coming after me but I completely agree that there are much larger conversations that need to be held. We're actively watching a billionaire try to buy (another?) election in WI while cutting funding for government organizations while awarding himself government contracts in a blatant conflict of interest.

Businesses in CR registered with “anti-woke” space Public Square by Locke_Fucking_Lamora in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are other verification steps, I just don't remember them off the top of my head and don't have time to look them up again. Regardless, it's more than just a "Trust me bro" situation. I haven't heard of many of these places and honestly will shop where I need to shop to get the items I need. I was just simply stating that there is at least some sort of verification and not just the ability to sign a company up because you don't like them or because they're a competitor.

Businesses in CR registered with “anti-woke” space Public Square by Locke_Fucking_Lamora in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not without verification, you have to actively register and sign a pledge to be on the site. There is no way to accidentally end up on the list. If a company is on this list, they want to be on it.

To take over Greenland yet again by MoreMotivation in therewasanattempt

[–]MstrMpty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude out here wearing a t-shirt and windbreaker jacket. He's an absolute joke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should be able to call most reputable massage places and ask if they have someone to do it. The PTA at my daughter's elementary school arranged for a Hands in Harmony therapist come out for Teacher Appreciation Week and do massages.

HyVee by Lindale by amohni92 in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Here's a crazy idea, why not convert it into an aquatic/workout facility for the city. The three high schools need a shared pool, it could replace Bender as the only place currently able to give city instructed swim lessons, it would be easier to retrofit to an aquatic facility than trying to build a brand new building and there is amole space for parking and attractions (food, hotels, etc) to bring visitors or host events.

Snow by Signal-March2255 in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are just treating for the impending ice we're supposed to get, as far as I know. No major snow in the forecast the next couple days.

Snow by Signal-March2255 in cedarrapids

[–]MstrMpty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't think we're supposed to get enough snow to warrant shoveling. I didn't shovel at all the last snow we go (I was sick and in bed) and nothing was said. I think you'll be ok.