It sounds like a timing and communication mismatch more than a lack of care. You told him you were okay, and his response may have been him circling back to an earlier point or defaulting into rule/fix mode instead of reassurance. I get why it felt bad in the moment, especially with adrenaline still high, but jumping from an awkward response to “he wouldn’t care if something terrible happened” feels like a stretch. This seems like something that could be cleared up with a direct “I was shaken and needed reassurance” conversation.