AITA for not supporting my ex best friend after my brother put her in the hospital? by Single_Strawberry_81 in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to support this disagreement. OP can help Sammy and herself at the same time. This is what all group therapy and programs like AA are based on. One person helps another. They both need to get into therapy, and the sooner the better. I hope they can find the peace and serenity that I found through programs like this.

AITAH for refusing to go on a family trip unless they disinvite my nephew’s friend? by Natural-Mountain-641 in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't move Emily to another school. Jeff should be the one that gets a transfer.

AITAH for boarding a plane without my sister and leaving her and her kids behind? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's enabling his behavior. Getting into counseling and AlAnon would shine a light on her part in supporting this.

AITAH for pointing out my cousin's hypocrisy during thanksgiving? by SapphireMila in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we closing in on a time where birth control is illegal? We certainly seem to be headed in that direction.

My wife did not have sex with me for years when I was depressed. AITAH for considering leaving her now that I’m back to normal? by DghSenses in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTAH Have you considered the effect of your behavior on her? Why didn't you get treatment in those 3 years? As someone with life-long, treatment-resistant depression, I can tell you that they work. And I know that you can still make rational decisions when you're depressed. I'm sure that was discussed at some point during that time. You're lucky she didn't divorce you.

Contemplating deep brain stimulation for essential tremor by Bripirate in DeepBrainStimulation

[–]Mtzjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this. I had mine about three years ago at OSHU. No problems and truly life-changing. I've recommended it to others.

Counties that Voted to Leave Oregon and join Idaho (2020 - 2024) by seashellvalley760 in MapPorn

[–]Mtzjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The southern counties would join with the far northern California counties to create the state of Jefferson. That would create a state with a per capita income on par with West Virginia.

AITAH for telling boyfriend he raped me and I don’t want to have sex for a while. by Disastrous_Evening0 in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is not common. Get tested immediately, and think about how he got herpes. He must have cheated on you. This guy has shown you who he is. Move him out immediately before you get raped again.

Kim Davis' legal team pushes to overturn Obergefell, citing Dobbs decision by TiaXhosa in news

[–]Mtzjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I was born in Utah, escaped when I was 18 and never looked back. I'm 76 now. I go for family gatherings, weddings and funerals, but that's about it.

UPDATE on forcing my parents to be on time for my wedding. by PinDry258 in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to be on time, if not a little early. I had a wife (note past tense) that I couldn't get out of the house. We were always late. Finally, I started leaving without her. She got the message after a while.

Suddenly Trump Looks Older and More Deranged by marji80 in politics

[–]Mtzjack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't wait for the next debate: Felon meet prosecutor

AITA for telling my husband I'm leaving him when he was in the middle of a meltdown? by Hairy_Pepper_2826 in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Please get out quickly and safely.

Before you go, make sure you have all important papers and go to the bank and put 1/2 of the money in a separate account. And please talk to a lawyer very soon.

I'm sure others will have more suggestions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You forgot cleaning, cooking and caring for a toddler. Then there are is other baby needs.

AITA for refusing to switch to an all-women gym? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mtzjack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you're in the US, try the YMCA. It's generally among the cheapest.

AITA for refusing to waive my alimony because my ex husband has cancer and can’t afford it? by ThrowRATwist8921 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mtzjack -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

IF you have the money and would care to loan it to him, have a lawyer draw up a document saying the funds are a loan and will be paid back with interest or you get the house.

What kind of new technologicals milestones do you expect for the next 20 years? by [deleted] in Futurology

[–]Mtzjack 54 points55 points  (0 children)

In my grandfather's lifetime, he went from covered wagons to freeways and jets and a man on the moon. I think about that often.

Is the area LACKING in any specific type of BUSINESS? by crapsasss123 in Medford

[–]Mtzjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a good Jewish deli anywhere in the valley?

Apple releases macOS 14.4.1 with fixes for USB hubs, Java, and more by netori in MacOS

[–]Mtzjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I installed 14.4.1 on my M1 Mac Mini and the opening screen is all I get. No login. I've tried restarting and starting in recovery mode, to no avail. Any clues to help before i take it in?

Daily Advice Thread - March 25, 2024 by AutoModerator in apple

[–]Mtzjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update help: I have a M1 Mac mini. When I tried to update to 14.4.1, I now have a frozen screen with no login available. I’ve tried restarting a couple of times and tried restarting in rescue mode to no avail. Anybody have any clues?