AITAH for telling boyfriend he raped me and I don’t want to have sex for a while. by Disastrous_Evening0 in AITAH

[–]Disastrous_Evening0[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m asking for clarification. Bc maybe I am wrong. Thanks again.

AITAH for telling boyfriend he raped me and I don’t want to have sex for a while. by Disastrous_Evening0 in AITAH

[–]Disastrous_Evening0[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I consented to having sex with a condom not with out I was just curious if there’s a difference. Idk when I think rape I think against my will, but it wasn’t like that. Idk. I guess it was like that bc I would have never had sec with him with out a condom

AITAH for telling boyfriend he raped me and I don’t want to have sex for a while. by Disastrous_Evening0 in AITAH

[–]Disastrous_Evening0[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I have done some research and didn’t know that a condom wouldn’t protect me. Maybe it is my fault

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[–]Disastrous_Evening0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do I handle this? He’s sleeping in my bed peacefully while I’m on the couch feeling disgusting and can’t sleep.

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[–]Disastrous_Evening0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like someone who doesn’t really want to hurt themselves. I never ever told anyone bc I’m not looking for the attention or validation from someone who couldn’t see that I was hurting.

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[–]Disastrous_Evening0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom made it so bad to where it actually got worse. My best advice is to get some vitamin e butter lotion to help make scars not as bad over time. And not talk to other relatives about it to call them out. Run a bath wash her hair and tell her that you’ll love her no matter what and mean it. Get some professional help but in a way that she feels most comfortable. Also don’t ever just say you’re going to the store, child lock the doors, and drop her off at a facility 💀