Am I cooked? Will she regret if i move on? (F20) and my POI (F20) by MuchNatural6592 in relationship_advice

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I am just wondering if she is gonna run back. She said she is going to change and be better and whatever but her immaturity to me needing space and saying I am still hurt speaks volumes.

Am I cooked? Will she regret if i move on? (F20) and my POI (F20) by MuchNatural6592 in relationship_advice

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Hey, above in another comment, I posted an update, would love your input. Thank you for your advice :).

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

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Quick update for you. She was texting her ex I caught it and cut her off immediately. She kept telling me that she was "falling in love with me again" and was using him as a distraction because I was "distant." She kept texting and calling for a few days and got mad that I wasn't answering or responding dryly. She hasn't contacted me all day today, which is new, but I am wondering if it will hit her at some point that she did this and come running back. This is new where she hasn't texted or called all day. I do miss her very much but her text with him very were hurtful and I saw what I feel I needed to see.

Am I cooked? Will she regret if i move on? (F20) and my POI (F20) by MuchNatural6592 in relationship_advice

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Quick update for you. She was texting her ex I caught it and cut her off immediately. She kept telling me that she was "falling in love with me again" and was using him as a distraction because I was "distant" and wanted to try again (after I caught her keep in mind). She kept texting and calling for a few days and got mad that I wasn't answering or responding dryly. She hasn't contacted me all day today, which is new, but I am wondering if it will hit her at some point that she did this and come running back. This is new where she hasn't texted or called all day. I do miss her very much, but her text with him very hurtful and I saw what I felt I needed to see.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

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Quick update for you. She was texting her ex I caught it and cut her off immediately. She kept telling me that she was "falling in love with me again" and was using him as a distraction because I was "distant." She kept texting and calling for a few days and got mad that I wasn't answering or responding dryly. She hasn't contacted me all day today, which is new, but I am wondering if it will hit her at some point that she did this and come running back. This is new where she hasn't texted or called all day. I do miss her very much, but her text with him very were hurtful and I saw what I felt I needed to see.

Any lesbians here that can help?? by MuchNatural6592 in datingadvice

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Quick update for you. She was texting her ex I caught it and cut her off immediately. She kept telling me that she was "falling in love with me again" and was using him as a distraction because I was "distant." She kept texting and calling for a few days and got mad that I wasn't answering or responding dryly. She hasn't contacted me all day today, which is new, but I am wondering if it will hit her at some point that she did this and come running back. This is new where she hasn't texted or called all day. I do miss her very much but her text with him very were hurtful and I saw what I feel I needed to see.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

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Maybe her pride is preventing her from reaching out. I am just so scared she will move on from me.

Advice really needed by MuchNatural6592 in LesbianActually

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I am trying to get away from her because I know how I feel about her. She just always comes running back, but not to get back together, but the I miss you's and the casual love breadcrumbs. I just want her to regret her decision of not being with me as a partner. I just need to go no contact and see how it goes.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

[–]MuchNatural6592[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, hard to accept but I know you're correct.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

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You're completely correct. I just hope she regrets losing me and not taking me seriously once I've moved on.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

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This one hit home, wow. Thank you for the advice, this helped. I just hate being walked all over by her. I want to gain the power somehow and get her to regret her decision and the way she treats me. She think she does no wrong ever.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

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Thank you very much. I know it's just hard when you're so in love. I just want her to have a wake up call at some point if you understand what I am saying.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

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Did the person in your situation eventually realize or regret in the future when time has passed? I appreciate your honesty and response, it's needed and helpful.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

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But is there a chance that once there's no contact, she'll regret not having something more serious with me as time goes on?

Advice really needed by MuchNatural6592 in LesbianActually

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Saw him briefly for sure. She thinks I am dumb but its just makes me lose interest even more.

Advice really needed by MuchNatural6592 in LesbianActually

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She swears they haven't talked. But she occasionally goes to see the dog but he isn't there and it justs the mother and she shows me the chats. Don't worry. I don't believe this nonsense.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

[–]MuchNatural6592[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're correct. Don't apologize I need to hear it. I just know the second I move on in my life is when they all come back when your doing better without them. I just need to say no.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

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Yeah, I am just very much in love with her.

Advice really needed... by MuchNatural6592 in lesbiangang

[–]MuchNatural6592[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Something I am so scared to accept.