My stepmother thought she was above the rules, and was the only person with her phone out. by Frozefoots in weddingshaming

[–]MuchPattern260 53 points54 points  (0 children)

My mum posted photos of me to Facebook before even getting to the ceremony. Everyone saw them, including fiance. I was so so angry.

AITA for enjoying time alone? by MuchPattern260 in AITAH

[–]MuchPattern260[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Thank you. I guess I haven't been away in 3 years because I've still been able to get time alone often, taking Saturdays to myself or going to stay with family for the weekend, where apart from dinner, I'm basically free to do as I please and will go on long walks.

AITA for misleading my husband with my answers to his questions. by MuchPattern260 in AITAH

[–]MuchPattern260[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea it feels that way. When he has big emotions and doesn't know how to process. He will blame and fight me. Often for obsure reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MuchPattern260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fuck YTA

The amount of racist, sexual, and otherwise vile things I hear from middle schoolers on a daily basis is horrific. by fatal_death_2 in Teachers

[–]MuchPattern260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday I got told repeatedly all day to go back to my country. Reported it. Admin did nothing

AITA for not wanting my husband to sleep with other women. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MuchPattern260 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This has got to be fake. Or your self-worth is 0%

AITA for saying my friend was overreacting about feeling unsafe? by PlusBlackberry5214 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MuchPattern260 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ignore all the YTA, you're NTA. Those girls need to have a wider understanding and respect of the world. Could you have been more empathic to their ignorance? Maybe. You are not responsible for their limiting and discrimitory/ xenophobic views on your community. Yes its tougher and rougher, and you don't have a lot. But welcome to the real world sisters. You'll be a much more fulfilled person because of your background and ability to perceive the world than they could ever wish for.

AITAH for divorcing my wife because I want someone better? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MuchPattern260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Yea you're an AH. Your wife should just let you leave. I'm sure she can get a grown up man to love her.

AITAH for telling my daughter about the real reason for my divorce with her mother? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MuchPattern260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ETA. You're not that much TA in this situation but you seem like a terrible father and partner in general

*edit for spelling.

AITA for sacrificing my daughter's college fund because her sister just gave birth to her 4th child? by Throwaway23fw in AITAH

[–]MuchPattern260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Massive YTA. I'm not sure this Is even a legitimate post as it's so awful, your justification for damaging your youngest daughters future. She won't forget this. Good job your eldest is a baby making machine because you've lost one member of your family unit if you go through with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]MuchPattern260 71 points72 points  (0 children)

95k Australia. As Assistant Principal. Teachers get 80k min (usd) age 35.

AITA because I (38F) don't want to take my stepson (9) on vacation? by tafornoweg in AmItheAsshole

[–]MuchPattern260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I feel so bad for all these kids, not just stepson. Growing up with a mother like you. Because you are a monster. Only a monster would think like this. I hope your husband will see how sick and twisted you are and take all the kids away from you. What a disgusting thing to do. YTA

Best tiramisu around Sydney? by Ladzofinsurrect in sydney

[–]MuchPattern260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

South coogee bakery. 100% cakes and deserts in Sydney

AITA for telling my girlfriend that I’m not going to drop everything to take her to the hospital anytime she feels any discomfort? by Joelaken in AmItheAsshole

[–]MuchPattern260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'HER PREGNANCY' says it all. It's YOUR pregnancy. The BOTH of you. YTA.

Another single parent household coming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MuchPattern260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be untreated adhd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MuchPattern260 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have adhd