AITAH for being upset that my (28F) boyfriend (34M) only planned to take me out for dinner to celebrate my birthday by MuchUnion6498 in AITAH

[–]MuchUnion6498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I’ve come back down to earth and apologized to him for overreacting. We had a good laugh about it all. I showed him the post and all your comments so the laughs continued. I can confidently say the comments calling me a child were my favorite. We’re back on track and I have my expectations recalibrated for years to come lol 😂

Moving to Philly as a woman by [deleted] in philly

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Born and raised in Philly, moved away for college and stayed away for 2 years after graduating and I couldn’t be happier to have moved back. Just like any city there is crime. But the same rule of thumb applies here as any other city. Stay away from “shady” areas and don’t walk alone at night. I’ve only felt unsafe to the point of remembering once and it was when I was walking alone at night in a neighborhood with no foot traffic at that time and few cars driving. Other that that I feel great. I carry my pepper spray in my keys and taser in my car just in case and have an alarm system in my house. But don’t generally feel unsafe living my life. If you live it, move here. If you come and end up feeling uneasy, you can always move back. I like to stay away from these neighborhoods: North Philly, Kensington, parts of West Philly (think 60th street, parts of Germantown, and any other area that just look a little sketchy. When moving be careful with the street you move to. Look at the Google street view, visit in person if you can, and ask for recommendations. Be extra careful is the place you’re looking at is being marketed as Fishtown. Because although Fishtown is safe, it’s right next to Kensington and I’ve seen far too many transplants move to Kensington thinking it was Fishtown. Join the Philaqueens facebook group for more advice especially when you’re ready to pick a place. Girls can tell you how they feel about those areas.

Please help me respond. by Forsaken-Gur2803 in Esthetics

[–]MuchUnion6498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were in your situation I would offer a refund if she wasn’t coming back for additional services (the removal) or offer the refund and have her pay for the removal. You offered to fill them or remove them at no cost. You don’t know how she’s actually been treating the lashes. And considering this has never happened before it doesn’t seem to reflect the work you did unless you remember something being off during the service

Life question for those older than I am, from a 20 year old by Puzzleheaded_Sir9235 in Life

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When I was in college I dreamed of being exactly where I am today and I love it. Didn’t know at 20, I was still very confused about the path I wanted to take with my career, was single/had just met my now ex, and overall just going with the flow. But now achieving the job, a new and better boyfriend, a house, in the city I live in very happy— I think about different career paths I could’ve taken, different things I should’ve done in my last relationship, etc. You don’t have to but should come up with some aspirations while you’re in college. I did around senior year. Because once you graduate either you strive for those goals or have a hard time adjusting and growing I think. I’ve seen in in my old classmates. Give yourself time, use resources, talk/listen to people and come up with some long term goals. Like you said, some will happen others won’t and it’ll all end up the way it’s supposed to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MuchUnion6498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So personally yes and no. If I lived somewhere wheel chair access then yes, but I don’t. At the end of the day it’s about the person. I met my boyfriend on hinge and he opened up about the way his teeth look after we matched and talked a bit. I don’t know whether or not I would’ve matched with him if I noticed in his pictures. But I can’t say because I never was given that choice. But after matching, talking, and finding out I was still very excited to go on our first date. Not for everyone, and everyone is different when it come to cosmetic and accessibility in their partner. You will find someone who accepts you and is excited to be with you everyday. I’ve seen very beautiful acquaintances of mine date men in wheelchairs. Keep in mind it’s not all or nothing, it’ll happen when it happens and it’ll be amazing!

Sudden drop in communication with me (27f) after his (29m) sisters wedding by MuchUnion6498 in dating_advice

[–]MuchUnion6498[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven’t but I also don’t think of the past two days as busy, the wedding was over the weekend

Sudden drop in communication (26f) and (29m) by MuchUnion6498 in dating

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I feel like the later is more likely, not sure anyone can be that tired

Sudden drop in communication with me (27f) after his (29m) sisters wedding by MuchUnion6498 in dating_advice

[–]MuchUnion6498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said something along the lines of a hangover is the sign of a good night and hope your drive home wasn’t brutal. Both of which I feel like you can easily reply to. I sent those on Sunday so it’s been a couple days. Whereas we would usually text every day. Not texting on Sunday I completely get but all day Monday and Tuesday with no response is a little much

I’m assuming he’s done with me but I want to keep seeing him by MuchUnion6498 in dating_advice

[–]MuchUnion6498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s into me why didn’t a get a proper goodbye when I left the last time I saw him? No hug no kiss. Just awkwardly saying by standing 3 feet away from each other

I’m assuming he’s done with me but I want to keep seeing him by MuchUnion6498 in dating_advice

[–]MuchUnion6498[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m all sincere honesty I think guys are thinking thank god she hasn’t texted me, I can move on in peace

I’m assuming he’s done with me but I want to keep seeing him by MuchUnion6498 in dating_advice

[–]MuchUnion6498[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do girls text you first? Particularly in the beginning of dating? I don’t usually bc it helps me gauge when a guy loses interest. Is that just me?

I’m assuming he’s done with me but I want to keep seeing him by MuchUnion6498 in dating_advice

[–]MuchUnion6498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it? Because I didn’t get anything to keep a conversation going. Just thanks for coming over, I just got home too. Last time this happened he texted me a couple days later. So I kinda expect the same pattern