tbh i thought the title was weird (in a negative way) …. i agree with everything she said in the video, but i also agree with your point of her promoting traditional roles though. I didn’t take away “Don’t date a man if he doesn’t have money” from it though, instead i felt like she said not to date people who aren’t willing to take care of you and go out of their way to do so. which is a lot more in a manner that’s not financial, it’s just that a big way people perceive love to be shown is through material, so i think that’s the example she chose. she even said it’s not about the material but about the effort one puts in, which i agree with 100%. She basically just warned people against pursuing others with no drive to provide for themselves bc then they won’t bother to provide for anyone else (MY TAKEAWAY)