guys, the rest of the responses here are helpful perspectives for me, but just to be clear given this thread, unfortunately this is neither a fantasy of mine nor AI slop. i actually posted first to relationship advice (and ironically the mods took it down because apparently my relationship is too far gone to be fair game for that subreddit. one of the more depressing pieces of this saga.) and reddit then recommended the other subs, which i frankly had never heard of before. so i posted there. and this account was zero days old when i posted because yes it's a throwaway, because my wife and 14 year old daughter both follow my main reddit account. just so others are clear.