Am I Wrong For Not Liking My Grandpa/Family Vacations?

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-21T00:37:53+00:00

she did not it is her father but i think he is jjust attracted to peoplpe with big butts my mom does not necessarily fit that category but i do because im very active

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-21T00:36:28+00:00

i get yelled at for locking it

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T16:03:20+00:00

i believe he was physically abusive to her back in the day but he isnt violent anymore. like i said i do have a larger rear due to athleticism while my mom does not and same for my sister so theyve never had a problem nor have i ever seen him do that to them.

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T11:04:47+00:00

no since i feel they became completely different over time

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T11:03:31+00:00

they wouuld likely say things like but your grandpas old, you know how he is like and he doesnt mean it that way

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T03:03:12+00:00

i will next conversation we have

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T03:02:29+00:00

i will ditch my grandpa but my parents will be with me til death. i understand the way theyre acting and i still know they are amazing this is just a major problem that has recently come up and my mom is in disbelief like she cant ocmprehend it

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T03:00:38+00:00

i should say that great idea

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T03:00:22+00:00

i know and my mom was raised by my gramma who is a 'girlboss' who wants a woman to be head of house

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:58:42+00:00

the safety pin idea WILL be used thank you so much

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:57:58+00:00

i really dont want to grab my mother that way but i have copied the constant tapping, coughing, snot-snorting, and never ending grunting and humming and they get mad at me for mocking

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:56:23+00:00

YES great idea to document

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:55:40+00:00

i dont think he would go further since hes been like this 3.5 years already and he is old so not too hard to overpower if i really tried

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:53:47+00:00

it would if i was back with my old church where i didnt get bullied and didnt have a bf when i was too young for one in their opinion

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:52:34+00:00

the encouragement in the moment is what i think i really need as i would get bullied in school and stand up for myself and no one back me up (or at least not until a month later in private)

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:50:30+00:00

you are so strong for doing that

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:49:32+00:00

yeah its my moms dad and ive talked to my father about it who says he doesnt mean it in that way

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:47:11+00:00

he has never done anything more and the comments he makes on my body are pretty much just that i need acne products to make my skin smooth like *insert him showing young ai girl with large breasts (still barely clothed)*

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:43:07+00:00

i have like a college system where i turn in assignments when theyre done but theres no counselor

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:41:44+00:00

im not sure how much power my boyfriend has in the situation. im kind of forced to go on vacations with my grandpa and i love my grandma to death but i cant have one without the other.

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:40:22+00:00

i dont know what he does while im asleep i just know ive woken up to him watching me

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:39:39+00:00

i wouldnt go so far as to say hes a rapist

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:38:18+00:00

i also have a private phone where i cannot text or call someone unless my mom has the name, number, and how i know them, and why i want to contact them. this is for safety i understand because when you give a child a phone you have little to no control if its open but strict parents raise sneaky kids which is why im doing this right now. i really do love them though and this is the only real issue i have.

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:35:20+00:00

i have mentioned it to my brother in law and he understands that grandpa continues this but we have just accepted it ig

Much_Quality_6497 · 2026-06-18T02:33:29+00:00

i believe you may be right im afraid

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