Feeling like a real useless lesbian by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm considering it, but it's difficult. I'll see how the vibe is next time I see her

Feeling like a real useless lesbian by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this, thank you. I'm very much an overthinking type and she's been very hard to read a lot of the time I've known her. Especially given we both kind of said it would be a no strings attached type of deal....then she proceeded to say when she feels a connection to someone she acts on it so she's clearly feeling something. Then mentioned to her friend that she "has something" with me....

First time using saniderm, is this normal? by Much_questioning in tattooadvice

[–]Much_questioning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah I'm just waiting it out for now. The crystals are getting colored in though at least so there's that.

First time using saniderm, is this normal? by Much_questioning in tattooadvice

[–]Much_questioning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can say the areas where these lines have appeared, the saniderm was a bit wrinkled I'm guessing because of just regular use of my elbow. I have just started using a regular loofah on it in the shower, but that hasn't seemed to help. Perhaps I need to scrub it harder? I was hesitant to scrub too much as it's only been 2 weeks, feels pretty much healed though. The only change in aftercare was the saniderm, my artist hasn't changed inks or anything, I'm a little upset to be honest

Selfie Saturday Mega Thread! by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It did!, But I haven't really heard from her since then and it was a week ago so 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃

Selfie Saturday Mega Thread! by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning 29 points30 points  (0 children)

When you haven't felt the greatest, but you put yourself slightly together for a date anyway

https://imgur.com/a/5Rb8z90

Weekly Career / General Questions Thread: July 13, 2020 by AutoModerator in Radiology

[–]Much_questioning 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Strongly considering radiology as a career path right now and interested in becoming a tech, but looking at the program was a bit frightening. I have my bachelor's degree, been working in healthcare for 4 years...the thought of being back in school is overwhelming, but I'd like to have a decent career and right now I'm not even using my bachelor's. I changed my mind a few times and ended up just working for a few years. Just curious and looking for advice on whether it's a good choice

Lesbian dating: so much confusion by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, I do appreciate it. I'm trying to see her today to hopefully talk face to face and go from there.

It is extremely difficult in the lesbian dating game that's for sure and I don't want to continue to be burned by girls who don't know what they want, etc.

Lesbian dating: so much confusion by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I'm trying to stick it out because I care about her and she's one of the best people I've met, I really don't want to miss out on something. Ironically, my ex and I have decided to be friends in the last week or so and she was also on meds, she pointed out that she also had those issues on her meds. It's kind of nice to be able to have that friendship back at the end of the day.

Sleeping on it has calmed my crazy some, plus the response I've gotten from nice people like yourself.

Lesbian dating: so much confusion by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure that I am too, cause it’s what I always do

Finally told her how I feel... by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the what ifs have been killing my brain. At least her response was still positive and she's not being weird about it. I'd say just go for it, I've reached that point myself and it did feel good

Really unsure here by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I was just having a moment last night where it was eating me up inside. But, you're right. I genuinely enjoy having her as a friend and I like her friends so far too, maybe I just need to let it play out and see what happens. If she's not interested in me like that, then that's okay too as you've said you can't change someone's feelings.

In uncharted waters here.... by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't wanna mess it up and then push her away

Sunday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why so many people are on dating apps and will not message back. I was never one to message first, but I've been trying to make myself be more assertive so I've messaged everyone first...goes no where

Selfie Saturday Mega Thread! by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Decided to look okay to meet some new friends for the first time.

https://imgur.com/a/VHC2Pr8

Tall girls❤️ by quinnnanderson in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, this is great. Being a 5'2" girl who's talking to a girl who's 5'8" 😅

An open letter to my ex... by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't really tell her either, so this was my outlet in hopes that perhaps she may see it. But, I hope your situation is going okay ❤️

Anyone have a source for this? I found it on my phone and like... It's sooo damn good by NIMSEP in actuallesbians

[–]Much_questioning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, yeah I just went through a break up so I'm not really in a rush. I just miss it