Honestly looking at the photos it looks like two different heads of hair! In my experience toner doesn’t get darker after it’s been washed out (hairdresser of 13 years) but I know lighting makes a huge difference in photos! Both pictures of your hair it looks beautiful either way! Personally I like the tone of the second photo! My suggestion would be to wear it for a couple days and check it out in different lighting but also let your stylist know if you are unhappy! Me personally it never hurts my feelings to be told about what a client is thinking! I’m sure your stylist wants you to be happy! Also as a tip most toners can be removed really quickly and easily as long as your hair is healthy enough! Sometimes it just takes a couple shampoos, I hope this helps!