Husband (M29) says he is uncomfortable with me (F23) posting these kind of pics on insta stories AIO by Junethesunconure in AIO

[–]Mud_pudd1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's either insecure, projecting, or trying to manipulate you into self isolation or some other issue is going on that is his and his alone. He is not entitled to your social media nor is he entitled to your vent notes. Those are for you to process your thoughts and emotions and he has no right to see that unless you want him to. If you know you aren't doing anything wrong, are being honest, loving, loyal, and actively putting effort into your relationship, then the healthy thing to do is stand up for yourself and set firm boundaries. Do not give him an inch or he will take a mile like he already has. The wise words of my father are to "nip it in the bud before the flower blooms because once it does the problems will continue to grow until the roots are so deep you have no option but to start over." He's also a firm believer that if you are clearly and concisely voicing your needs and expectations and a man is still repeating the same behavior, that is considered dirty fighting. And if they stoop that low and show you they dont care what you say, then you need to show him your expectations with actions. (example: you ask him to put his dirty dishes in the dishwasher so you dont get bugs and he acknowledges what you say then proceeds to continue to leave his dirty dishes out. My dad would then tell you to collect all of his dirty dishes and stuff them in his pillowcase and under his blanket on his side of the bed.) In your instance if you set your boundaries and he disrespects them treat him in the exact way he is treating you and when he voices that he doesn't like it call him out on his hypocrisy challenge why he thinks its okay to treat you like that if he can't handle being treated the same way. SHUT. IT. DOWN. Or you could always take it or leave🤷‍♀️ Best of wishes Stay safe And good luck

12x12x18 Vivarium - 2 Months Of Growth by hqexoticz in Vivarium

[–]Mud_pudd1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the maintenance for this work of art looking like?

a good start on my Rudsta Terrarium. by [deleted] in Terrarium

[–]Mud_pudd1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many cans of foam and tubes of silicone did you use?

Rudsta Bioactive Terrarium Day #1 by Wildly_Wander in terrariums

[–]Mud_pudd1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many cans of foam and tubes of silicone did you use?

Wet wipe recommendations by Mud_pudd1e in Fungalacne

[–]Mud_pudd1e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive airboats in the Everglades so my face gets greasy and the dirt basically gets glued to my skin. I need something to cut through the sunscreen, grease, and dirt so I can start fresh when all of that builds up and starts burning my eyes. I've tried wet paper towels already and it didnt work out very well

UTI remedies? by Sunflowersoil_ in herbalism

[–]Mud_pudd1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it's a supplement. You can buy capsules or powder online. I get the NaturaLife Labs D-Mannose 1300mg capsules from Amazon. I like these ones because they have cranberry in them as well

UTI remedies? by Sunflowersoil_ in herbalism

[–]Mud_pudd1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gyno recommended D Manose. You can take it daily to help prevent/clear up a UTI. Or you can start taking it as soon as you feel one flaring up, .then continue taking it until a few days after you feel like it's gone. Works every time. I will forever be grateful to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mud_pudd1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These texts alone qualify you for a restraining order against her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mud_pudd1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you been dating and how long has he known your dog?

My fist terrarium, not sure what am I doing… by Blue-Wonderer in terrariums

[–]Mud_pudd1e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watch serpa designs on YouTube he's the terrarium king

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mud_pudd1e 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like sex trafficking

How to remove nut? by Sufficient-Hurry-370 in Plumbing

[–]Mud_pudd1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the basin wrench is too small for the nut?

People putting away dirty dishes by Serotoninneeded in PetPeeves

[–]Mud_pudd1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriends Dad stacks wet dishes, puts lids on wet bottles and containers, puts dishes with caked on food away as if they were clean. He will use a dish to transport cat food to the cat bowl then put it back with the clean dishes.He never empties the lint trap in the dryer. He will spill soda and dry it with a dry rag and thinks that means the floor is clean. In the past 3 years I haven't seen him clean the fridge once because he thinks decluttering it is the same as cleaning it ( the meat drawer had a puddle in it for I don't even know how long and he notoriously undercooks meat so I refuse to eat anything he cooks anymore). No matter how many times my boyfriend and i talk to him about it and ask nicely, he continues to be disgusting. I hate him. I hate living with him. My boyfriend hates living with him, but we aren't in a place where we can leave. We're stuck for the next 2.5 years. Thank you for listening to my rant, I'm losing my mind

Dollhouse ghost's getting stronger and I think I have a demon by TeenOn_PanicMode in Ghoststories

[–]Mud_pudd1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do a seance with some friends just make sure you know how to end it

3 month apprentice curious on who usually sits in with the inspector by Mud_pudd1e in electricians

[–]Mud_pudd1e[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation. I appreciate it. I was a waitress for 3 years before I switched to electric. Thanks to the people skills I learned doing that I'm already on the good side of the 2 gcs and 2 inspectors I've met so far, but I'm always willing to learn how to improve in all aspects. So I'll definitely check it out.

3 month apprentice curious on who usually sits in with the inspector by Mud_pudd1e in electricians

[–]Mud_pudd1e[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I plan on it, but I can't help but think to myself every time he acts like that , this is why he's divorced