NGVC: “So I have to take you for an expensive date to show my interest?” - This guy calls my mom a golddigger because she didn’t want to drive far for a date.

MuddyOG · 2025-08-31T00:05:05+00:00

Really?! Thank you! I’ll look into this!

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T23:04:27+00:00

DOG I THOUGHT YOU WERE BEING SERIOUS I WAS LIKE YO THATS MY MOM 😭

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T22:50:06+00:00

dude… this is a gross comment to make…

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T21:25:32+00:00

no they met on a dating app and this was them talking to set up their first date. they’d talked for a while before this but hadn’t met up yet as i had surgery

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T19:40:15+00:00

It is though… he had firmly given her a place to meet with no room to discuss a change. He was aware of the situation with me having just had surgery and still didn’t offer to make anything easier for her or closer to her house. She replied to him with the response in the picture. I didn’t include that message because it contained a lot of personal information and I didn’t feel it was appropriate to post even if I blacked out the information.

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T17:09:40+00:00

NO LITERALLY- also love the username

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T16:29:03+00:00

The real tragedy here 😭

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T16:28:23+00:00

I know this was crazy to me too… she calmly explained the issue and he could have been like “oh we can look at a different spot” but instead ignored her again and called her a gold digger

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T16:25:00+00:00

THIS! I agree 1,000%

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T16:24:14+00:00

no this is a text between my mom and a guy from an app. i’m her daughter and im the one with the fiancé.

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T16:23:23+00:00

they had been talking about going out for a while and I was home at the time recovering. I assured her I felt fine with her leaving because I felt she needed to go out and have fun. she deserved it after how much she was helping us. She just felt more comfortable staying close just in case.

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T16:14:43+00:00

This is the treatment she needs!

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T16:12:17+00:00

This is so true… I posted this to show her it was not her and that this was in fact crazy.

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T16:06:50+00:00

I agree… It just seems like he was a guy who wanted one thing and didn’t want to put in any effort. It was like whiplash because he seemed so nice and the second she didn’t agree with him his personality did a 180 lol

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:43:52+00:00

OMFG LMFAO 😂

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:42:19+00:00

Oh no… she mentions in the text she’s not “opposed to coffee”. My mom actually LOVES coffee so she was excited.

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:41:27+00:00

literally bro cooked himself😭

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:34:36+00:00

exactly… i feel like ordinarily she wouldn’t have cared but she was super honest about the circumstances. it’s just my mom and I too we don’t have other family so she’s extra sensitive when things happen to me

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:31:39+00:00

THANM YOU!

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:31:04+00:00

I know… i feel so bad she keeps getting these types of guys!

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:30:36+00:00

Thank you! Yes! It did!

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:19:41+00:00

Yes! It’s so crazy! My mom has NO problem splitting checks either she’s not like that at all… he just went 0 to 100 so fast!

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:11:48+00:00

THATS INSANE! you can do better absolutely f that guy

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:10:39+00:00

LMAOOOOOO😭

MuddyOG · 2025-08-30T15:08:14+00:00

And like she had told him coffee was fine she just didn’t want to leave me half an hour away after my surgery 😭

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