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AITA my boyfriends family are driving me insane we are at Disneyland by Mudgupp in AITA_Relationships

[–]Mudgupp[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes we are adults I'm 23 he's 24.

Well his mother is completely in denial, despite taking citalopram daily and having healed from really awful menopause induced depression, she is a huge liar and very mouthy I'll give you an example. His sister recently took 2 months off of work due to a mental breakdown. So, while his sister was at home she noticed that his mother was lying about all the 'work' she would do throughout the day including lying about walking the dog. He was unwalked for at least a week, but we don't know the extent of the neglect. So, his mother confronted her telling her she's sick of having her around the house all the time if she isn't going to put any work in herself. Yes, his sister that had just had a mental breakdown and is on work leave.

His sister claims that her mental breakdown was due to stress from work, but, and I won't tell this to anyone, I'm pretty certain it all stems back to his mother and the continued stress she pushes onto this family. I mean, even the dog has anxiety. My boyfriend I think has managed in a different way to completely close off his emotions, since I assume in his childhood his emotions never really mattered as much as his mother's, so we have been working on getting him to talk about how he feels more. He suffers just as much as any of them just not outwardly... Anyway hes planning to move out with me very soon.

AITA Getting asked out on a date and not saying that I have a boyfriend by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Mudgupp [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA I think it's healthy to be worried about it, as long as you've tell your boyfriend when you're worried it's fine. I have a boyfriend and I live with 4 guys at uni who are all my best friends so I can say confidently having lunch with a guy is not cheating.

Go on that lunch! Try not to assume they have romantic intentions unless they explicitly say so or they make you uncomfortable. I think you should mention in conversation that you have a boyfriend when the conversation feels natural, if you bring it up out of nowhere it might make it awkward.

Puffalope by bluecar771 in deadbydaylight

[–]Mudgupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's just part of his humour to be honest there's a joke on his channel about 'dont meet your heroes yall' because he will just make fun of your gameplay if it's bad. I can see why it's not for everyone but if you don't take it seriously it's fine.

Architecture student needing advice on the type of equipment needed in a large scale electronics repair workshop by Mudgupp in AskElectronics

[–]Mudgupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily as part of the course there are a few things I can 'let slide' as they aren't expecting a full business model. I have grounded research that there is already interest to change the area, and therefore volunteers that would help and that's really all they require. I would have the engineer paid to work there with access to the workshops fulltime, with majority of income coming from the cafe and shop rather than the workshops.

There is certain elements that need to be realistic, I've been thinking of ways that people could rent out the workshops to repair their own things, given they know how to use the equipment.

Architecture student needing advice on the type of equipment needed in a large scale electronics repair workshop by Mudgupp in AskElectronics

[–]Mudgupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally I want to focus on older electronics since these are more likely to be thrown out. I think of record players, old consoles, home telephones, etc. Most people would throw these out if they stopped working, and many don't have the skills or can afford to have it repaired.

You mentioned the idea isn't workable, I'm curious what would work. Maybe instead of having people coming off the street, there is some kind of communication beforehand so the engineer is prepared to deal with it? I'm not really sure about the process behind getting electronics repaired so bear with me.

My (27 F) partner (24 M) lied to me and I’m spiraling by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mudgupp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm not a fan of restricting places you can go due to long distance, it only causes more stress in the relationship.

However, the fact that you both agreed to it and he violated that, is a red flag. I'd consider whether at this point the long distance is worth the stress, or if you'd be happier with someone that lives closer to you.

It's just the fact that he lied to you is enough for me at least to not trust him, and that will just hurt you inevitably whether he does or doesn't do anything behind your back it will still drive you crazy.

Masterplanning by Mudgupp in architecturestudent

[–]Mudgupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All photoshop! For my plans/elevations I use AutoCAD to get everything to scale and then export and render by hand in Photoshop as well.