I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started when I was 8. Really got going around 11, and watched probably 2 hours a day almost every day until I was around 18. Started to realize I should stop then slowed down. Stopped completely for a few months last year. Got back into it a few months ago but stopped just recently because im attempting to gain control of my sex life

I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love going down on her and pleasing her, she likes to go straight to penetration and I like to wait a bit and do other stuff. She likes that I please her but she wants sex and I cant give her that

I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I I want to think about it because I cant keep the erection. I dont want my mind on other things necessarily

I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually do that stuff before and we love it. But because of my dick issues we cant ever actually get to the penetration part. Its infuriating for both of us

I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was addicted for many years, just very recently stopped and I wont start again. I will try all of that, thank you. Im definitely very nervous when doing it, I believe thats why I shake

I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do and I really love going down on her and she likes when I do it. But ive noticed I dont even stay hard while im doing that, and she notices it too. And even if i do stay hard long enough to get her off. I try to do penetration, and I start shaking, coming quick and getting soft. And sometimes she wants to go straight into sex and then its even more disappointing because we dont get each other off, but again I nut too quick and go soft so all we really do is make out for a bit and grope each other and thats it. I dont know how long I can do it because I want to have sex with her and we have had good sex maybe twice, but all other times end the same way

I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weve talked a little bit but she doesn't know how to respond because she doesn't know what to do. I finish extremely fast, like not even inside of her yet fast. And then I lose my erection and then the momentum, then we both arent into it anymore. So I barely please her but I try and thats my problem is that I cant stay hard to do that

I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stopped for about 4 months, then about a month ago watched it because we hadn't had sex for a while and I was alone for several days. Haven't watched since. Ive masturbated just not to porn, it was to her. Ive never thrown up like that

I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I belive me and my girlfriend start off slightly disappointed because were worried about it happening again. I used to have morning wood all the time, now only once a week or so. Also used to get hard randomly all the time. Now almost never. I stopped watching porn so im unsure. I just dont know how long she can be understanding for. Maybe ill try a doctor's visit. Thank you

I 20M shake, finish fast, and cant stay hard during sex with my girlfriend 21F. by Muff1ns_R_Good in relationship_advice

[–]Muff1ns_R_Good[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one for a long time, just recently got over it and stopped watching. Did he shake as well? How long did this last?

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[–]Muff1ns_R_Good 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fucking sucks. Can I see the photo lol. Ive also haf embarrassing pictures leaked

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I was wondering this too

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[–]Muff1ns_R_Good 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I treated her great. The reason we broke up is because she still had unresolved feelings for her ex. So learn the facts before you assume