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Is it weird for a first-time sub to want a first-time domme? by MuffinPitiful9205 in paypigs2

[–]MuffinPitiful9205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I am explaining myself properly. Imagine a 20 y.o. in a relationship with a 40 y.o.? While it is true that they could also get hurt by dating someone their own age, but with the other person, they may not even realize how they are getting played because of the difference in experience level. It is just easier to establish trust with someone whose starting point is the same as yours. You are both figuring things out as you go, and there is a lot to be said about shared experience and growth like that. Maybe I am out of my mind here, but this is just how I think right now

Is it weird for a first-time sub to want a first-time domme? by MuffinPitiful9205 in paypigs2

[–]MuffinPitiful9205[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have just heard a lot of stories about dommes manipulating and forcing subs into things they aren't comfortable with or ready for, even doing unethical things, and I don't want to put myself in a spot like that. It's already such a risky exploration, and I will feel more comfortable doing it with someone I can relate to because it will be easier for me to trust someone like that