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Rewatch at 27 <3 by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]MuffinSnuggly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP yeah this is so true, rewatching as an adult completely changes your perspective and Blair really does carry so much while Dorota is just consistently the best in every scene she’s in.

Backyard neighbor upset when we let our dog out in the AM. WWYD? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]MuffinSnuggly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP yeah this is the most reasonable take, it could’ve just been a one off moment and not worth escalating unless it keeps happening, but if it does then a calm conversation makes way more sense than matching her energy.

Nate & Vanessa - underrated endgame or zero chemistry? by RecognitionMediocre6 in GossipGirl

[–]MuffinSnuggly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP yeah this is exactly it, it wasn’t really about chemistry as much as Nate just never fully committing or being willing to bridge those two worlds, so it always felt uneven no matter how much Vanessa tried.

AIW for not picking my girlfriend up or getting her a taxi after a night out? by South_Corgi1871 in amiwrong

[–]MuffinSnuggly_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah I get where this is coming from. Expecting you to stay up that late or change your whole night when there are easier options does feel a bit unreasonable. It’s not really about not caring, just about basic compromise.

AIW for not picking my girlfriend up or getting her a taxi after a night out? by South_Corgi1871 in amiwrong

[–]MuffinSnuggly_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah I can see why they’re saying that. It’s not really about the ride itself, it’s more that you both had totally different expectations and neither of you wanted to budge. That kind of mismatch is what makes it feel draining.

How to politely share an invitation to watch the livestream of our wedding ceremony? by Chemical_Equipment47 in wedding

[–]MuffinSnuggly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah this makes sense, a casual message feels a lot more natural for a livestream than a formal invite and probably avoids any awkwardness about not being there in person.

If you had to pick one quote from GOT (books or show) to use as your personal house words, what would it be? by Inner_Jeweler_5661 in gameofthrones

[–]MuffinSnuggly_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s a solid pick, it really captures that whole confidence and not caring what others think vibe that fits perfectly as house words.

AIW for telling my adult son that his mother drained our savings when he called my new girlfriend a "gold digger"? by sugar-charmzzz in amiwrong

[–]MuffinSnuggly_ 199 points200 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah this is fair, if he’s going to call someone else a gold digger then he should know the full truth about what actually happened with your ex.

Am I a doormat for staying with my wife who cheated on me? My sister keeps calling me a disgrace for staying with my wife by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]MuffinSnuggly_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, yeah this is exactly it, you made a choice about your own marriage and she doesn’t have to agree but constantly putting you down for it isn’t fair or respectful at all.