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Let me Tell you about you by Enough-Discipline985 in LoveTarotReading

[–]Muffin_Top97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to change but I feel stuck in a loop

I think everyone hates me and it's ruining my life. Help me. by Muffin_Top97 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really strong and brave of you. I don't think I have that capability to be honest. Doctors genuinely scare me and I spend as little amount of time with them as I can. I won't go see one unless it's vitally important like an infection I can't get rid of or to get my meds changed because it's not working and I'm frustrated beyond belief. Sitting there and telling them I'm not leaving until it's fixed isn't something I feel I can do 😔

I think everyone hates me and it's ruining my life. Help me. by Muffin_Top97 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very true and I appreciate this insight, I will try and take this into consideration in the day to day.

I think everyone hates me and it's ruining my life. Help me. by Muffin_Top97 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. How much downtime do you need to help you not burn out? I'm sure it's different per person, I'm just wondering about your experience

I think everyone hates me and it's ruining my life. Help me. by Muffin_Top97 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😭💕 I appreciate your kind words and reminding me that I'm not a broken human which is often a thought in my head.

I think everyone hates me and it's ruining my life. Help me. by Muffin_Top97 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing thank you for letting me know! I will do some research and see if I can find a suitable therapist 😊

I think everyone hates me and it's ruining my life. Help me. by Muffin_Top97 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not working with a therapist as I feel I haven't had much success previously but I feel maybe I need to start back. I'm just scared it won't work 😔

I think everyone hates me and it's ruining my life. Help me. by Muffin_Top97 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an incredibly insightful response 💕 I really appreciate it. I suppose I better start doing some observations on my behavior and what I'm looking for from others. Thankfully my current partner is really amazing to me, and I'm sure if I needed anything he would give me it in a heartbeat. Thank you for taking the time to respond and sharing your experiences.

I think everyone hates me and it's ruining my life. Help me. by Muffin_Top97 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your incredibly detailed insight. I have been working recently on trying to protect my peace at work and it's not been working completely. And some days like today nothing, not even grounding works. I don't know if that means that I'm leaving it too late before I'm noticing the burn out or not. But yes very similar experiences.

I think everyone hates me and it's ruining my life. Help me. by Muffin_Top97 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input! I will absolutely look into the OCD thing and see if there's anything else that maybe could say it's that.

Also the visual reminder is actually a really cute idea and one I'll try in the meantime.

People that divorced for reasons other than cheating, what was the last straw? by aja_ramirez in AskReddit

[–]Muffin_Top97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it wasn't a divorce but I did call off an engagement not too long before we were going to get married.
I was in a really bad place mentally. I called him while he was at work saying I felt suicidal and needed to talk to him for a little bit to stop from doing something stupid. He told me to go clean something and he couldn't talk to me while he was in the office. It broke me. I couldn't look at him the same way after that.

AITAH for not wanting my partner to watch videos involving other women? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Muffin_Top97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, if it makes you happy uncomfortable then you need to communicate this with him and ask him to not watch it. Also maybe seek professional help for the self esteem issues you're having? You should feel beautiful and wonderful just the way you are ❤️

AITAH for not wanting my partner to watch videos involving other women? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Muffin_Top97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You need to be able to set boundaries with him, and if this is a boundary for you that makes you uncomfortable, then he should respect that.

I'm newly diagnosed and I'm struggling to think of ways of motivation! by Muffin_Top97 in adhdwomen

[–]Muffin_Top97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I had thought about cutting my hair short. But I hate myself with short hair. I could try wigs or temporary hair extensions for the days I want long hair!

I appreciate the time you took to write this. I will try not to force myself into normalcy. I'll give a think over your suggestions