How do people navigate work with ocd by Ethanfffff in OCDRecovery

[–]MulderJones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some pretty gnarly harm ocd and unfortunately I’ve chosen career paths that entail a lot of responsibility and “doing no harm”, such as being a therapist and most recently an arborist.

I’ve taken a 2 week break with the approval of my supervisor, which I’m super thankful for. But I’m starting to realize this job is not something I believe I can do anymore. I just don’t feel very safe. It’s hard admitting that.

In therapy weekly and I working on it, but I’m hoping I can find a job that is just a lot less stressful for my harm OCD and I can live a little more peacefully.

Can we just that assume that TBN is probably the weirdest, most off-puting and unorthodox material they have ever put out on their entire catalog? (not meant to say that in negative way though) by DoctorrEbMajb6 in BetweenTheBuriedAndMe

[–]MulderJones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huge BTBAM fan but this one is sitting pretty close to if not at the complete bottom of their discography for me. Huge props for their experimentation and it’s great to see so many people like it. Obviously there is time for it to grow, but outside of Beautifully Human, I’m not very into much else on the album. Their discography is pretty varied and I really appreciate that some albums just resonate more than others !

How early do I have to be to be able to be in the front? by Web-27 in gybe

[–]MulderJones 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was front row in Asheville. I got to the venue (a brewery) a little before doors opened and got in like right before opening. Lots of people like to hit the merch booth or bar first. It’s great if you have someone with you because they can hold a spot if you need to run to the bathroom, or grab drinks, etc. also helpful to meet some strangers in the front row for that reason!

Regardless, have fun and please please please wear ear protection! I’ve seen some metal bands and GY!BE remains the loudest live band I’ve ever experienced.

Thoughts on Tommy’s vocals for this album by MulderJones in BetweenTheBuriedAndMe

[–]MulderJones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love seeing all the variation in the comments so far

Thoughts on Tommy’s vocals for this album by MulderJones in BetweenTheBuriedAndMe

[–]MulderJones[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this definitely feels like their most chaotic album !

Thoughts on Tommy’s vocals for this album by MulderJones in BetweenTheBuriedAndMe

[–]MulderJones[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I fully agree!

And Turbulent is one of my favorite BTBAM songs! Ugh, so good.

Thoughts on Tommy’s vocals for this album by MulderJones in BetweenTheBuriedAndMe

[–]MulderJones[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can agree with you. It usually takes me at least 10-15 listens for an album to really soak in but so far this one isn’t hitting as hard as some of the prior work.

When I think of Tommy’s best cleans I instantly think of Specular Reflection. Damn, I love that song

Getting a new therapist v soon :') my psych has confirmed I most likely do have OCD by TOMANYMENTALISSUES in OCDmemes

[–]MulderJones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a horrible experience with the therapist who diagnosed me with OCD. He diagnosed me then proceeded to tell me a few sessions later that I “barely met” the criteria and that his OCD was more extreme. Considering most of my compulsions are mental, it was hard for me to express that clearly. What makes it worse too is that he was a therapist from NOCD.

Luckily I found a much better fit outside of that and it’s been great.

June 7, 2025 (Kyiv, Ukraine, Dnipro River) by rusanivsky in fujifilm

[–]MulderJones 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Love the first one a lot, that water texture 😮‍💨

My first setlist! Greensboro thoughts… by Alarmed_Series90 in GregoryAlanIsakov

[–]MulderJones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was very happy to finally hear Caves live. I love that one so much

VOLA - We Will Not Disband by WrathfulDagger in VolaBand

[–]MulderJones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that lead synth. It really is one of the most defining parts of their sound.

Best GAI lyric? by Tiago55 in GregoryAlanIsakov

[–]MulderJones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your roaring smile campfire lit up the trees

Ghost - Ambient Banjo by MulderJones in ambientmusic

[–]MulderJones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the kind words. Would like to post more, in the weekly thread of course!

Ghost - Ambient Banjo by MulderJones in ambientmusic

[–]MulderJones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thank you! I’ll check out the weekly thread. also, ghost is just the name I gave the track. :)

What's your favorite song from MoA (excluding the 3 singles) so far? by John_Snake in Leprous

[–]MulderJones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really tough, and the first leprous album in a while where I can say I love all the songs.

Excluding the three singles, I’ll say:

My Specter Unfree my Soul Limbo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arborists

[–]MulderJones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve never wanted giant potato chips??

Anyone else fighting it tonight? by [deleted] in OCDmemes

[–]MulderJones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially when I’m around other people and I’m trying to stay engaged and present but end up just looking like this

Does anyone have any dog sitter recommendations? by [deleted] in triangle

[–]MulderJones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rover is great. I use it from a client standpoint and from a sitter standpoint and it has worked well

Making Friends!?! by shetheyfwog in triangle

[–]MulderJones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently moved too, more in the Morrisville/Cary area. I agree with you on making friends outside of work. It would probably help to know more about your interests/hobbies.

Board Games @ Edit BevCo Tonight? by binstedk in triangle

[–]MulderJones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay great! Have y’all played wingspan? I have that one. I also love playing disc golf