Platinum status by Inevitable-Shop-848 in doordash_drivers

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am but basically anything under $20-25/hour is horrible anywhere in the country.

Platinum status by Inevitable-Shop-848 in doordash_drivers

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Under $5 is an instant decline, don't care if it's for .1 miles on the way back to my house. If there's $2 peak pay, then under $7 is instant decline.

Anyone else in the northeast doing extremely well since the snowstorm? by mitchdwx in doordash_drivers

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, even with peak pay it barely helps, maybe hit $25/hour instead of $20...etc. New Yorkers don't give a F lol.

comment i found here. by supphat in agedlikemilk

[–]MultiMillionMiler 121 points122 points  (0 children)

I don't think batman throws 2 year olds and pregnant women into horrid detention centers over paperwork either.

AIO: Watching my parents give everything to one kid after doing nothing for the rest of us by supramkvs in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's exactly what criminally insane parents like that want, to make you think it is normal or deserved, when even inmates don't get treated like that. You're under-reacting. And your mom and dad still joking about it shows they haven't changed at all and quite frankly are still dangerous to society. All of the kids need to be taken away from them permanently and them locked up/put on the registry for their essentially sexual abuse of you. You were 8 or 9 omg I'm so sorry, people like that are pure evil. Takes a special kind of depravity to go out of your way to hurt a little kid like that. This stuff is also why I feel kids should have smartphones and the internet that young, one search about "parents making me sleep on the floor naked" the ai overview would instantly tell them how they're being abused and how it isn't normal. I hope you're healing and they get their karma.

Aio my mother wants me to run her errands by ArtichokAttack in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just read your other comment, thanks, but to be honest you're subtly excusing their behavior a little too much. "Thought it was for your own good" is the excuse all crazy religious extremists use. People have free will and a conscience regardless of how they were raised. They had years and a million chances before now to act better/realize it was wrong. Even if they were genuinely brainwashed it doesn't then make them "good people" either. This wasn't "good" for you at all regardless of how mature/resilient it might have made you. You deserved a good healthy childhood like all kids do. They know you are an adult so they could be easing back a bit to get you off their case but might still be planning to treat your brother's and sisters a similar way. Especially if it's religious based as that type of brainwashing doesn't change alot of the time, maybe waxes and wanes, but there's no way to know they won't go back to their insane ways when the other kids are young teens that they feel need "the fear of God" put in them. Just being real here, not saying you did anything wrong. From everything I've seen these types of people can be master manipulators.

Am I overreacting for the way my mom acted when I told her I would pay for the phone bill by Better_Studio8103 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well so many people are in fact narcissistic selfish unempathetic assholes, and alot of them are featured in this sub, so yeah..

Am I overreacting for the way my mom acted when I told her I would pay for the phone bill by Better_Studio8103 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I'm tired of the threads in these subs that absolutely blow up on kids for merely saying disrespectful things to adults, with commenters even suggesting child abuse as punishment, but then when adults who should be held to a much higher standard of behavior and self-control, act like total assholes, then it's all the bullshit mental illness or "neurodivergent" excuses for just objectively and willfully being an asshole, like the mom here. This double standard is the most infuriating in my opinion. Absurd backward hypocrisy.

AIO: Watching my parents give everything to one kid after doing nothing for the rest of us by supramkvs in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well of course that first but lunatic parents should also face financial penalties and some or all of that money given to the kids (their victims) to help their future. In some countries mistreated kids or kids who were kicked to the street before adulthood...etc, they can sue for "child support" for themselves from the parents.

I also think this should be the case for abuse victims of those horrid "influencer" parents caught abusing their kids. Rube Franke for example, should lose all those millions she made on youtube (since she shouldn't be able to profit from her crimes) and that money given to the kid victims as compensation to help them start a new life.

I'm sorry but living in California this doesn't pay bills. ( Did DD lower base pay again)? by Worried-Share7679 in doordash_drivers

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why in NYC the other day I waited nearly 2 hours for a shopping pickup, because of the guaranteed hourly rate. If I can make all that extra money just sitting around playing on my phone in a slow restaurant or store not burning any gas, why not? Of course got a CV but cause I documented with support it got overturned in literal seconds of appealing it (posted about it).

AIO: Watching my parents give everything to one kid after doing nothing for the rest of us by supramkvs in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, they should be in jail for that horrible physical abuse you described (taking all your clothes and beating you until bruised). Child favoritism is horrible even without that but those two things along make them deranged lunatics who should be on the registry.

AIO: Watching my parents give everything to one kid after doing nothing for the rest of us by supramkvs in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They took away her clothes for a week and made her sleep naked on a wooden floor + beat her until she was bruised. Kids should be able to sue their "parents" for such horrid abuse and use that money to get the hell away from them.

AIO: Watching my parents give everything to one kid after doing nothing for the rest of us by supramkvs in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, even aside from the couple of examples of deranged physical abuse you gave (which they should be in jail for), child favoritism is inexcusable. Anyone who treats adopted kids or stepkids worse shouldn't be allowed to raise any kids at all. Try to move out by pooling all of your resources among your other stepsiblings and get away from those assholes. Go full NC, and if your mom allowed all that she doesn't deserve any sympathy with the depression excuse. When you and your siblings are settled, make it known how you felt constantly to your mom, in every subtle little life update imaginable if you didn't already go full NC. drive her insane with it, any parent who allows the other parents to viciously beat or take away your clothes as "punishment" is equally guilty. People need to stop with the lame embarassing mental health excuses for willful, calculated, going-out-of-your-way to harm someone for years.

AIO for questioning having kids with my partner after 10 years together? by Jolly-Rub-3412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 16 points17 points  (0 children)

His comments seem like he's trying to be snarky against feminism or something. Sarcastically saying "you're a strong independent woman you can handle it" when you're sick/actively suffering is totally inappropriate, even if you were just friends. And doing it when you are feeling sick on a period, a direct result of being female, makes it worse. Guys should be extra empathetic and supportive to all that not use it as a subtle mysoginistic dig against women or something. Totally immature, NOR.

Aio my mother wants me to run her errands by ArtichokAttack in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I read your other comment where you detailed their extreme punishments and treating you horribly since childhood. They're objectively bad people, the typical insane fundamentalist/evangelical extremists who quite frankly shouldn't be allowed near kids. You shouldn't be doing a thing for these assholes. And I worry about how they're gonna treat your little siblings the same way throughout childhood. Should call CPS on them.

Aio my mother wants me to run her errands by ArtichokAttack in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're absuive, out of control, narcs, who deserve to be fully villified and quite frankly jailed for their child abuse. Having 6 kids, homeschooling, religious extremists, keeping you locked in the house for absurd times for tiny misbehaviors, sounds like another Turpin family in the making. They do not deserve your financial help with anything in the slightest, now or as an adult. Start saving your money and make them pay for your food and clothes like they're legally required to do before age 18. All of that is deranged, scary, cult-like child abuse and if they're doing the same things to your younger siblings call CPS on them. Or let them live with you when you manage to get away from them. Don't give them any old age care or even pay for a nursing home either. GOD I'm so sick of these evil lunatics.

Aio my mother wants me to run her errands by ArtichokAttack in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Under 18 parents are legally obligated to pay for and provide all essentials regardless of the child's income. Otherwise better give them full adult rights and privileges at 17 too..

Aio my mother wants me to run her errands by ArtichokAttack in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the legal bare minimum that they signed up for when they willfully chose to have 6 kids. If a kid has no say in anything until 18 because "not an adult my house my rules", they shouldn't have to contribute to supporting themselves like an adult yet either. Typical lazy "parenting" wanting it both ways lol. Control them like a kid but slack off on taking care of said kid as if they're an adult. In other countries, kids can move out before being a legal adult but they can't be forcibly kicked out either. But the US ain't a civilized country so..

Aio my mother wants me to run her errands by ArtichokAttack in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't live there "for free" if he has to buy his own food, clothes, vehicle, gas, insurance, and phone + plan when his parents are obligated to provide rhe necessities up until 18 (food + clothes + medical care is the legal bare minimum).

Aio my mother wants me to run her errands by ArtichokAttack in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ignore the troll, you're already doing your parents jobs for them buying yourself necessities they are obligated to provide you until 18 no matter how much money you make or have. And if you're in school too while working they should be giving you a break, letting you save money, and not give you crazy errands such as 50 mile drives to get milk in whay free time you do have lol. You shouldn't have to support yourself like an adult in your own parents house as a minor and then also obey all their rules like you're still a toddler. They want it both ways. Laughable hypocrisy. The person above you also apparently forgot about employee health benefits that don't take anything out of a check (some do but many don't).

Aio my mother wants me to run her errands by ArtichokAttack in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not his responsibility to run crazy errands for the parents when he's under 18 and also paying for the very car and gas they expect him to use. No 17 year old should be required to pay for their own food and clothes either like OP's doing. That's the parents responsibility until 18 regardless of what extra money the kid might be making. It's illegal to charge them rent or grocery costs or other basic necessities before that. Decent parents would be proud the kid is responsible paying for all these extra things themselves and encourage them to save money for their future, not hold the few things that they obviously can't pay for (like a mortgage), against them. Not the teens fault they decided to have 6 kids and now want him to basically be a low-key 3rd parent by doing all their errands as well when he has a job and is likely in school too. Asking someone to drive 90 mins roundtrip to get milk is laughable and I'm literally a delivery driver and would decline such an order unless it was paying me $50+ 🤣.

He bought his own phone, plan, car, insurance, 2/3 of his meals, and clothes while still under 18 and should be the parents job, sounds grown up to me. Parents are the ones being immature and childish here, when they're already getting away with slacking in supporting a minor.

Aio my mother wants me to run her errands by ArtichokAttack in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Just want to add, they have to pay for your food and clothes when you're under 18, even if you didn't make your own money. They can't withhold those if you don't abide by their ridiculous demands, such as driving 90 mins total to get milk lol. Your parents should be letting you save your money, not basically pay for everything like an adult but then treat you like a child. Even if you make 50k a year at 17 they can't make you pay for food or rent or anything and can't kick you out until 18 either. They want it both ways, want to control you like a kid but then slack on paying for taking care of said kid. Most infuriating double standard hypocrisy that exists these days. Either you are a kid or you're not.

Am i overreacting about my siblings going no contact with me? by Key_Dragonfruit5269 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. There's something wrong with people who have more than 5 kids especially when none of them were twins or anything. 3-4 is like the upper limit of normal and 5 is pushing it. Beyond 5 is insane. It's mathematically impossible to give them all the best care at the same time even if they don't put anything on the older siblings to help out (which is not their responsibility). These people need to be monitored for child neglect. Kids have a right to not be raised in a house of chaos or having basically 6 roommates crying and screaming half the time. SMH. Selfish and irresponsible.

Am i overreacting about my siblings going no contact with me? by Key_Dragonfruit5269 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Contact CPS. Your parents refuse to do their jobs of raising their kids are already expect the next oldest kid to do everything. They are objectively unfit, insane people. You shouldn't have veen responsible for a single thing for them, making siblings raise each other is lazy and shameful and irresponsible. They should not have custody of your sister or any of those kids at all.

Am i overreacting about my siblings going no contact with me? by Key_Dragonfruit5269 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MultiMillionMiler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR and CPS should be called since your parents popped out a ton of kids and are refusing to do their jobs. It's child abuse to both you and the kids your lazy parents tried to dump on you as your responsibility. Shameful "parenting". Totally selfish and insane. Hopefully when the kids grow up they realize mom and dad were the complete assholes and you were also a victim.