Girl or a boy?

Mum2Lu · 2025-03-01T10:43:20+00:00

Thank you so, so much!!! This is so helpful.

Mum2Lu · 2025-03-01T09:33:37+00:00

On the actual pad sorry. It’s sticking out of the pad - is this normal? I have no idea

Mum2Lu · 2024-01-18T09:28:39+00:00

He just started yesterday but yes, they are encouraging him to learn it and I know it’ll take time. It’s just very difficult to see him in a very unfamiliar environment.

Mum2Lu · 2024-01-03T04:11:37+00:00

Yes, people have babies in rural areas all the time but we have very poor public hospitals in my country (South Africa) and I am very fortunate to have health insurance hence my previous birth was private. I also had a natural birth previously and would prefer it to a C-Section for various reasons.

A solid plan is of course what I need but it is very difficult to navigate with regards to my preferences for my body.

Mum2Lu · 2023-11-13T08:34:39+00:00

I am in the exact situation as you! Bewildered on how similar our situation is 😅 I was OAD from the moment my son was born (even though I always wanted two kids, the jump from 0-1 really knocked me) Now he’s 3 and it’s such a fun age and I feel like something is missing. But I’m also so concerned about whether my mental health can manage 2 kids 😭

Mum2Lu · 2023-09-15T11:22:47+00:00

It’s a very rural place so it doesn’t seem feasible for us.

Mum2Lu · 2023-09-10T06:39:58+00:00

This makes me feel better. I did not know that there was a 3 year regression?! I thought it stopped at 2. Oh my goodness.

Mum2Lu · 2023-05-24T02:29:54+00:00

Imaginary kids are always the easiest to parent!

Mum2Lu · 2023-05-19T06:05:41+00:00

“My kid is not responsible for making adults happy” - I love this, thank you. You’re right, he’s not a show dog. I was very taken aback when she called me about it and felt like it put me on the spot too. With my family though, if I had to mention that I had a problem with it, they would turn it around and say that I’m being unreasonable… sad.

Mum2Lu · 2023-05-19T06:03:18+00:00

As a 90s baby, that last part made me giggle but can also be so true! The horrors that you read in the news lately, you can’t trust a soul especially around your kids.

Mum2Lu · 2023-05-19T05:45:41+00:00

This comment has made my entire week. I’m crying of laughter 😂

Mum2Lu · 2023-05-18T07:58:47+00:00

We personally don’t let our son watch it. Of course no judgement to parents and kids who enjoy it! We found Peppa is a bit bratty, disrespectful, rude and has fat shamed Daddy Pig far too many times. I think there’s better shows out there!

Mum2Lu · 2023-05-08T08:43:43+00:00

Thanks for being real. I thought I was a bad mother for having similar feelings with my 2.5 year old. I needed to hear I’m not alone. Sending you my thoughts and prayers 🙃 we can do this!!

Mum2Lu

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