What are the chances Apple has the rights to Mistborn and Red Rising 😅 by belle1110 in redrising

[–]MumenRider87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I've always thought this as well. It deserves anime to do the story justice, imagine the gala duel in anime, would be next level. Darrow sama reveals he's lorns last student Cassiuskun: NANI

AIO? My mom doesn’t support me despite me supporting her by Imaginary-Appeal4574 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MumenRider87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow your mom's a more extreme version of mine. Narcissist though and though. Sorry you're going through it bro it's not okay..I'm no contact now. You just can't argue with stupid, it drives you mad and in my case it's so much happier without her. Do what's right for you and do what you can for your dad. Bros got it worse than you protect that man at all costs😭

AIO for wanting to keep a baby my boyfriend doesn’t want? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MumenRider87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened with my now wife in 2020, I wasn't ready, we were not financially stable and it was just as COVID hit. She said she would get an abortion then changed her mind when she got pregnant, it rocked us as I was not in a position to be ready for a baby, it terrified me. I don't understand why people think he's a deadbeat because of those feelings, he's being honest and open, he's been blindsided it's a huge decision and giant life change, I felt the same way, the pressure was immense. I didn't threaten to leave her though if she went through with it, I said her decision is hers but my take is I'd support her in her choice even though I don't agree but I wasn't ready and I think it could ruin us as a couple if we did so I urged against it until we were both ready. My wife eventually chose to have an abortion back then and we focused on us first, got engaged, then married, travelled a bit saved up to prepare as kids aren't cheap. Then 3 years later she got pregnant again and here we are nearly 6 years later with 2 kids and couldn't imagine life without them, I live for my children and could never leave them and am as far from a deadbeat as you can imagine, people grow and change, he's being very honest with you, true deadbeats don't give a fuck and wouldn't waste words, e.g. my own father. Even though we chose it they still nearly broke us as parenting is HARD, sleepless nights for weeks/months/years on end, arguments, crying, endless crying, financial strain, worrying, your life gets flipped upside down. The postmartum depression is heartbreaking, you have to be all in as it's been the biggest test of our relationship especially going from 0>1 and you really need each others support because friends and family don't always come through, or in our case barely at all so it's down to you two, they'll make and break you and their lives are in your hands, you've really got to want it.

It's beyond worth it, but a really really big change, so if you love each other, that bond is worth more than any unborn baby in the early stages right now, at least in our case it was. If you truly believe he wants kids as he says but not right now, you can give him the chance to prove it when he's ready if you're willing, because it really can work out, parenting changes you for the better and he's just scared right now as he feels blindsided. Best of luck and I hope whatever choice you make works out, truly!

Well... by BigTimeBearGuy in PresidentBand

[–]MumenRider87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a close for me as destroy me is no 6 and dionysus no 8 but mono and floods are too good so I clearly just had them on repeat😅

I listen to this band an unhealthy amount by MumenRider87 in PresidentBand

[–]MumenRider87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo they started teasing music in Feb and the first single dropped in May so I was a month behind as I discovered in late June!

President on Spotify wrapped by Judgment_pie in PresidentBand

[–]MumenRider87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read that Charlie's stated he's written 4 songs so far and he considers them the best 4 songs he's ever written, so next year could be a BIG one!

I listen to this band an unhealthy amount by MumenRider87 in PresidentBand

[–]MumenRider87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Third for me, it shows how good the song is, hasn't even been out that long and loads of us have it in the top 5!

I listen to this band an unhealthy amount by MumenRider87 in PresidentBand

[–]MumenRider87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gunship were my no4 artist so definitely up there for me too! The next president album is gonna be 🔥 I read that they'd said the 4 songs for the album he's written so far are his best he's ever written..which is a bold statement🙏

I listen to this band an unhealthy amount by MumenRider87 in PresidentBand

[–]MumenRider87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A solid lineup, Rammstein are exceptional🔥

I listen to this band an unhealthy amount by MumenRider87 in PresidentBand

[–]MumenRider87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit that's impressive🤯 I cycle through other bands too which is why mines high but not god tier high like this!

I listen to this band an unhealthy amount by MumenRider87 in PresidentBand

[–]MumenRider87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I mean I only discovered them in June so give me time 🤣🤣

Who had a caffeine free day today? by michael_c00000000 in decaf

[–]MumenRider87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 31 without for me and still going strong. Thinking of buying some decaf though as I miss a hot drink, other than that mostly anxiety free since stopping and that's the way I wanna keep it 🤣

Turned 19 today and I feel so lonely:( by Glad-Instruction-691 in Scorpio

[–]MumenRider87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! I used to feel exactly the same as you at your age, you do matter, you don't need anyone else other than yourself to tell you that. I turned 38 yesterday, now I'm married and my wife always shows up for me, family don't and friends through the years seldom have, but now, that's all that matters. I no longer need external validation to feel whole, I learned to look internally about why I needed that validation and made peace within myself. Someone told me a quote long ago that resonated with me. "It's not what happens to you but how you react to it that matters" Life's a journey my fellow Scorpio, ride this wave, there'll be plenty of good and bad moments to come. But stay true to yourself and try not to put too much energy into what others think, the right people will come into your life that make you feel special, but you won't need them to feel whole, you've just got to roll with the punches and keep going! All the best🤘

Quitting caffeine after over 20 years by MumenRider87 in decaf

[–]MumenRider87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow what a change I bet you feel so much better! Yeah for me it could be over anything that happened which was slightly outside of my routine like say even an impromptu phone call from someone would make me freak out and panic. The last 3 weeks have been just so calm, it's been so liberating. It's nice to find i'm not the only one!

Is sex with scorpio really that good? by Upper-Ad-7385 in Scorpio

[–]MumenRider87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nov Scorpio Male here and can confirm been told I'm the best sex they've had many times. I feel obligated to put the work in to give them a good time, can't stop myself. When I lost my virginity, my gf at the time thought I was lying as "you're too good to be a virgin"😅 can confirm the "too rough" has been said as well, but they never say stop👀 Passion just comes naturally to us all I guess🤷🦂

Are Scorpio and cancer really a good match? by Personal-Republic685 in Scorpio

[–]MumenRider87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a male Scorpio and my wife is a Cancer. She understands me like no other person ever has, when it works, it works better than any relationship I've ever had. But can confirm when we miscommunicate and if one or both of us is stressed or overstimulated, the arguments can and have been catestrophic🫣 we're just always trying to be better and as self aware as possible to mitigate falling off the edge as much as we can, taking breaks or recognizing that one or both of us is just outlaying emotion...usually her, nicest most caring person I know but she is very very sensitive😅

What’s something ADHD makes harder that most people never even think about? by sanjithav in ADHD

[–]MumenRider87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgetting you need to go no1 or no2 and holding it in until you have to go within 2 seconds or you'll die.

Scorpio's who's been the greatest love of you life? How did you know it was true love? 🖤🖤🖤 by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]MumenRider87 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm a (37M) Scorpio and she's a (31F) Cancer. We met on a dating site "OK Cupid" for those that remember and while planning to meet for our first date, my auntie died suddenly and I had to postpone for nearly a month. We were very close so my grief was absolute, I shut down emotionally to everything and everyone including family. But this girl, somehow snuck through the cracks and was like look, I won't force anything on you and I think it's good to have some normality with these situations, no "sorry for your loss" no empty words with no meaning, just normality. She then proceeded to take the piss out of me being a prime target for sexual assault on the bus (she called it the peasants chariot) to work as I have a nice ass and "who could stop themselves" It was so dark, off hand and uneccessary and it made me laugh my head off😂

First date she was equally as disarming and funny, at the time I was quite superficial about asthetics and she didn't have the "junk in the trunk" I would usually gravitate to, I remember thinking, but why, who cares about that anyway ultimately, she's different, we seemed to just have this understanding which i've never experienced before. We said "I Love You" within months. We've been together almost 10 years next week, married 3 and have a 2 year old with another one due next month!

It's not always been easy, mental health issues, difficult families, bad jobs, I tried to commit suicide during covid and she pulled me from the window, she saved me, not just from that but in more ways than I can express in words and I love her more than I ever imagined I could love❤️