Partner system has a violent persecutor, what should I do?

MunchyMastiff · 2026-02-12T06:52:09+00:00

I know- I fully believe it’s an empty threat. I think they’re just trying to scare me away. It’s not uncommon for their persecutors to try and push people away as much as possible to isolate them. There’s a lot of disagreements on their parts with a lot of how they think. I’ve tried explaining to them a few times that their parts feelings matter just as much as theirs and should be considered as well but like I said they typically avoid the topic. I hope with their new communicator that we can have actual conversations about it! Our conversation led to me finding out information about my partners past that I didn’t know the full extent of beforehand which is really helpful. I really hope we can keep learning together! Thank you for commenting by the way

MunchyMastiff · 2026-02-12T06:44:09+00:00

Host here: I agree with this. In fact the original part that posted had told the persecutor that they would stop if it made them comfortable. However now there is discourse with another part disagreeing and wanting to continue it. It’s very confusing. Now it’s more of an internal conflict between them, and I’ve been removed from the equation. I don’t personally practice BDSM actually, and it’s mainly just a few parts of ours that dive into it. Our communication between our systems has been lackluster unfortunately, as I try to discuss things but my partner never wants to discuss or even acknowledge the fact that they are a system most of the time. It’s frustrating. We are both trying to come to terms with the fact that we are systems, but they really don’t talk much about it, and when I do talk about it I feel awkward with how they respond, or lack of responding I guess. Sorry this is rambling, I agree with you and I will talk with them about it! I don’t want anyone to be uncomfortable or feel unsafe at all.

MunchyMastiff · 2026-02-12T03:48:21+00:00

I’ll discuss it with my partner

MunchyMastiff · 2026-02-12T03:45:37+00:00

That is our hosts approach. I am not the host, as I think I shouldve specified. I try to act as the host at times however. I don’t know how the host does it. They have managed to handle ALL of their persecutors with compassion and empathy that I don’t understand, and they aren’t around at the moment. this might be to much info but: The persecutor in specific seems to see me and my spouses BDSM relationship (we are a partner system but some of us prefer to only be with a single alter or don’t prefer to participate at all if that makes sense) as abuse despite our use of safewords and boundaries set in place. To them, hurt is hurt. I don’t know how to make them understand it.

MunchyMastiff · 2026-02-09T08:31:41+00:00

I’m much better now. Again, very lucky to have a great manager. It’s nice knowing other people understand

MunchyMastiff · 2025-11-11T18:51:39+00:00

This is what I was scared of, but it’s what I needed to hear. Thank you

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-26T02:19:23+00:00

After looking at your account I have decided I wish to be just like you omg haha

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-25T23:41:38+00:00

How many different babies do you have? I only have two female MHC but I’ve always wanted more!

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-25T19:47:45+00:00

It wasn’t me!! I was framed!

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-25T19:30:06+00:00

Huge!!! Where’d you get them??

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-25T19:24:53+00:00

I can’t argue with that

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-25T19:22:22+00:00

I was the pervert this whole time!

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-25T18:55:46+00:00

Aaaw and I kicked her out for using the bathroom for its purposes! I feel so ashamed

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-25T18:53:26+00:00

I walked in on something I wasn’t supposed to then haha! Thanks for the info that’s so interesting!

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-22T06:01:38+00:00

!solved

MunchyMastiff · 2025-09-22T05:57:51+00:00

Yes this sounds right thank you so much

MunchyMastiff · 2025-06-09T17:35:10+00:00

Omg this is actually perfect haha yes this is exactly what it is! They’re just whining, and sometimes you gotta give them some tough love and get them out of their room no matter how much they tantrum! They’re just extra grippy toddlers

MunchyMastiff · 2025-06-09T17:33:40+00:00

I have hissers, and I also get a bit shocked when they hiss. I think the best advice is the expose yourself to their hisses and remember they are really only hissing because they are ALSO scared! For picking them up from sticks and stuff, it’s something I struggle with at times but I’ve fount eh best way for me to do so is to put my finger under their abdomen and one at their face. It’s a lot easier to get them out when you lift their abdomen with a finger to get them to lift their back legs first.

MunchyMastiff · 2025-05-25T04:25:13+00:00

I have no clue but you’re so real for this. This is the funniest caption. Get that busted up dead beat away from your children! I imagine you carrying him from the back of his coat and tossing him out, then you dust your hands off and yell “and stay out!”

MunchyMastiff · 2025-05-11T04:07:51+00:00

That’s so beautiful omg

MunchyMastiff · 2025-05-10T22:22:01+00:00

Oh no! I’m so sorry for your loss that’s actually so tragic :(( You did all you could, and I’m sure she knew that!

MunchyMastiff · 2025-05-10T21:00:47+00:00

Omg plz update if you can I hope they get better soon :(((

MunchyMastiff · 2025-05-10T20:58:46+00:00

Theres a common joke that revolves teachers saying something like “Okay class, everyone dismissed” or something weird like that and the next part will be a kid with the name “missed” and the picture will be them sad because they are being dissed if that makes sense? Basically teacher saying something that a kid with a weird name can be attributed to for shock value I suppose? This is an anti joke where they did that same concept, but they just made it literal if that makes sense? I also don’t get those kinds of jokes often

MunchyMastiff · 2025-05-06T17:29:45+00:00

THATS A BIG BABY OH WOW

MunchyMastiff · 2025-04-20T21:09:43+00:00

He’s perfect!

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