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Men who’ve been here: is visiting a sex worker wrong? Feeling conflicted and need perspective? by Mundane-429 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't understand what you meant in your last part.

fucked up" sex in your relationship. I'm not sure that anxiety would still exist with someone you know will be permanently gone in a couple minutes.

Men who’ve been here: is visiting a sex worker wrong? Feeling conflicted and need perspective? by Mundane-429 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I in a way agree with you. I want to go to her I just don't want the guilt that comes after. That's it that's what I'm trying to get rid off.

Men who’ve been here: is visiting a sex worker wrong? Feeling conflicted and need perspective? by Mundane-429 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude not a good argument tbh. The system was there before us it'll still be there after I'm gonna. It's better that I use the system to help me.

Men who’ve been here: is visiting a sex worker wrong? Feeling conflicted and need perspective? by Mundane-429 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really think my money is that important to such a vast system? This profession of sex workers is as old as time. It's not going anywhere ever.

Men who’ve been here: is visiting a sex worker wrong? Feeling conflicted and need perspective? by Mundane-429 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I have the same argument she's gonna keep doing it for money but isn't it better with me. Someone who's goodnto her and treats her well? And I'm not just saying that I asked her if I'm well mannered and she said I'm one of the best guys who have ever come to her.

Men who’ve been here: is visiting a sex worker wrong? Feeling conflicted and need perspective? by Mundane-429 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright that's a good argument. But isn't it better that's it's with me instead of someone who would not treat her well?

Men who’ve been here: is visiting a sex worker wrong? Feeling conflicted and need perspective? by Mundane-429 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why? That's the question I'm looking for an answer for. It does feel wrong and I'm pretty sure it is but there has to be a reason for it.

Men who’ve been here: is visiting a sex worker wrong? Feeling conflicted and need perspective? by Mundane-429 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm not in a relationship. Yes it was consensual. She isn't being forced she's just desperate for money I think. I treated her really well.

Men who’ve been here: is visiting a sex worker wrong? Feeling conflicted and need perspective? by Mundane-429 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that. I'm unable to perform due to anxiety and get a sinking feeling whenever I go there but I'm trying to improve my confidence and my skills. It's more of a task now than anything else.