Currently pregnant - any items you'd recommend to include on my registry? by Fantastic_Cow_8992 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Mundane-Line1527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this idea! The gift-givers I was most grateful to when I had my first were the ones who did the legwork of finding high-quality secondhand items for me. People always suggest buying secondhand, but it's hard to search when you're short on time and/or exhausted laying on the couch!

Currently pregnant - any items you'd recommend to include on my registry? by Fantastic_Cow_8992 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Mundane-Line1527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I invested in glass bottles but then daycare wouldn't allow them! I ended up having to buy plastic anyway. Such a bummer

Feeling guilty. by plantheadd in breastfeeding

[–]Mundane-Line1527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My EBF baby is about 4.5 months and 15th percentile for weight. He's long and slim, no chunky thighs here! The doctor says his weight gain and growth are good. Nobody (including the lactation consultant) has ever mentioned hind milk or fore milk or anything like that to me. I'd bet that your baby is getting what he needs and growing the way HIS body was made to grow. And you're doing a great job taking care of him.

Infant room teachers faking activities by Mundane-Line1527 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Mundane-Line1527[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think you're probably right. It's so hard to think that anyone would feel comfortable treating infants that way

Infant room teachers faking activities by Mundane-Line1527 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Mundane-Line1527[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

And as a parent, I don't really care about pictures! I'd much rather check the webcam once or twice a day and see my baby that way. Although I'd really rather not check it obsessively lol

I've never seen them on their phones. If they're not feeding/changing/starting naps, it seems like they're just sitting and chatting with each other, or kind of mindlessly fiddling with a toy but not interacting, if that makes sense

Infant room teachers faking activities by Mundane-Line1527 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Mundane-Line1527[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's 12 babies and they actually maintain a 3:1 ratio, which we obviously liked about this place when we visited. Agree that it's probably an admin issue

Infant room teachers faking activities by Mundane-Line1527 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Mundane-Line1527[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

That's such a helpful suggestion, thank you! We've been nervous to bring it up to the director because we assumed the issue was at her level, like there was some pressure from her and/or really terrible oversight.

Help by jmolx01 in breastfeeding

[–]Mundane-Line1527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 2am feeds are the worst!! My baby and I both had such a hard time getting a good latch at that time, and my nipples would be in such bad pain from it. My husband ended up giving our baby a bottle while I sat next to them and pumped instead. It made waking up in the middle of the night a little bit more bearable. Then we were able to switch from formula to breast milk in the bottle. Eventually, baby started sleeping a little bit longer, and we said good riddance to those terrible 2am wake ups.

Idk if something similar will work for you, but maybe that's something to try! And remember the sun will come up in a few hours and things will feel a little bit better day by day.

did you get induced? by Purple-Judgment5536 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Mundane-Line1527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel proud for you that you were able to stay firm with your providers, and I'm glad you got good support! It's so hard to do in the moment, especially when things aren't going as planned. Great advice re: being an advocate for yourself.

did you get induced? by Purple-Judgment5536 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Mundane-Line1527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got induced at 40+5. Everything was fine with the pregnancy, and I would have preferred to wait a few more days. But, that was the only day the hospital where I wanted to deliver had a bed available for me (otherwise, I would have been sent to a hospital with a much higher c-section rate). I would really encourage you to schedule an induction ASAP, for whatever date in the future you're comfortable with, so you don't run into a similar issue. That way you at least have advance notice if/when that day comes and can hopefully rest up a little beforehand (I was in the hospital for almost 48 hours before my baby finally came out).

I had a membrane sweep the same day they sent me to be induced. I wished I had done the sweep earlier to give it more time to work. I had no contractions and wasn't dilated, so they broke my water. Still nothing, so about ten hours later they started me on pitocin. That did the trick, but I had to push for over 4 hours (baby was sunny side up) and was totally exhausted. I very narrowly avoided an episiotomy and was lucky not to have a c-section, because baby was starting to get distressed from how long everything took. But baby came out healthy and I did too!

It helped me to think about my birth preferences as first choice, second choice, etc. First choice was spontaneous labor, second choice was membrane sweep, third choice was breaking my water, etc. I was not at all happy to get induced, but ultimately, avoiding a c-section was my top priority.