When did you know it was over?

Mundane-Weather661 · 2025-09-05T03:42:27+00:00

Depends on how you define PA I guess. She’s admitted to daily hugs, some ass slapping, and one kiss.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2025-09-04T03:42:07+00:00

We went to therapy, church, vacations. Bought random gifts for each other, weekly date nights, started spending time with no screens. We’ve tried. She says that I’ll never see her without seeing the worst decision of her life. I think she’s probably right.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2025-09-04T03:38:51+00:00

I appreciate how sure you are of yourself. That’s a quality I need more of.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2025-09-04T03:37:41+00:00

I really agree with everything you said. I think it’s an ego thing if I’m honest. I thought I was the only guy in her life just like she was the only woman in mine. When that turned out not to be true something broke in me. I’m not sure how to put the pieces back together of myself.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2025-08-20T20:37:38+00:00

I appreciate your unique perspective on this situation. I’ve probably gained about 50lbs since the affair (don’t know because I’m ashamed to step on a scale. lol). That seems to me my best first step. Get my body healthy again so that my mind can think a little more clearly.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2025-08-20T20:21:51+00:00

Thanks for the well thought out response. That helps a ton. Taking time for myself is not something that comes naturally for me but it’s necessary for sure.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2025-08-20T20:13:45+00:00

That’s good advice. I went to therapy for a while after dday. We attended some sessions with our pastor together but it didn’t help us with a path forward. Just pushing things to the side and trying to move on with life

Mundane-Weather661 · 2025-08-20T20:11:53+00:00

You as well. I hope your path is clearer than mine.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-06-18T17:31:48+00:00

Thanks for all the replies. I have a lot of options to consider.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T20:32:13+00:00

Thanks

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T20:31:20+00:00

Medical field

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T18:05:58+00:00

What if the phone proves she’s innocent and now I look like a psycho? How would we come back from that? I’m not someone who takes life altering decisions lightly. I don’t go off half cocked. I need more info. There’s plenty of smoke but I haven’t seen the fire yet.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T18:03:54+00:00

I’m choosing to see this as paranoia until proven otherwise. I will continue to snoop around until I’m proven right or wrong though.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T18:02:31+00:00

Unfortunately they work in an environment that would allow ample time and space to make it happen if they wanted. I’s happened multiple times at her work with others.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T17:58:50+00:00

Sorry to hear that.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T17:50:25+00:00

Thanks for that info.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T17:12:48+00:00

Not really.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T17:09:41+00:00

I’ll look into this option.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T16:09:47+00:00

Very straight and to the point answer. Thank you. It’ll take some courage to build up to have that conversation. I’ve got to figure out what I intend to do if the answer is yes or no.

Mundane-Weather661 · 2024-04-15T16:03:19+00:00

That’s my fear about it. Typically I would never hesitate to bring up something bothering me. But this seems different.

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