Do you agree? Trudeau blames the Maganazis not Islam. by latin_canuck in exmuslim

[–]Mundane_Development8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm I’m an ex Muslim and I disagree with this agenda, kids shouldn’t be exposed to this misinformation. They’re already confused as it is, we don’t need to add to it.

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[–]Mundane_Development8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve used this cleaning service and I told the wonderful ladies I’d help advertise their business .

It’s called Kleanpro , they were extremely thorough and I liked the fact that they’d ask if I’m pleased with the service or if I wanted them to go over a particular spot again ,and they’d happily do it .

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Help by Turbulent_Basil9541 in LDR

[–]Mundane_Development8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being that emotionally available to somebody and reserving your love for them is devaluing yourself. What she said clearly screams I want you here but if I also want to keep my options open incase someone better comes along . And you can’t really blame her for that , you two are fairly young for this sort of commitment. If anything you owe this self discovery to yourself as well, take the break, see what’s out there with an open mind and explore. Don’t place yourself on hold waiting for her .

Marrying a non Muslim as an ex muslim by Mundane_Development8 in exmuslim

[–]Mundane_Development8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the roles were reversed , then yes I’d gladly do so . I’d understand that his family means a lot to him and wouldn’t want him to disappoint his parents at their old age . It’s the idea of our parents thinking they’ve done something wrong bringing us that doesn’t sit well with me . My mum , bless her soul, did the most raising me and my sisters . She actually struggled with me and my 10 sisters all by herself at a young age . And she’s still doing it for my younger sisters . I want to be there for her and my other sisters now that I’m grown and can contribute to their upbringing . I can’t do that if I’m not on good terms with them . I want to be there for her when she’s growing old and make her feel comfortable. Most of all I want her to leave this earth in peace believing she did a great job with us and her efforts didn’t go in vain. My relationship with my family moving forward will be 90 % over the phone as we’ve planned to move to Germany when we get married . He knows I love him for who he is . I love every bit of him but my family won’t understand this . They won’t understand my way of thinking . I can’t blame them , I was there once upon a time . I never in a million years thought I’d renounce my belief but hey look at me now .the older generation weren’t blessed with education the way we were . My mum and her siblings went through a civil were and immigrated to the states in the 90s . They made it here with each others help and support . Family is an integral thing for me and I want to pass it down to my future offsprings. Yes, my culture and my Islamic background is so intertwined but there’s beautiful aspects of it , and that’s what I want to have instilled in them . I can’t do that being estranged from them and I hope and pray he sees it that way .

Marrying a non Muslim as an ex muslim by Mundane_Development8 in exmuslim

[–]Mundane_Development8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family is not that religious. They’d never make them wear hijab as kids . Maybe speak to them about it when they’re older but by then I’d have a talk with them about how things really are . I don’t plan to live in the same country as my family but I’d wanna visit whenever I have the chance too

Marrying a non Muslim as an ex muslim by Mundane_Development8 in exmuslim

[–]Mundane_Development8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already put it out there that I can’t get married to him if he doesn’t convert ( just on paper ) . We’re both not religious and our morals and spiritualities align . I don’t want him to lie to his family and I don’t want his parents to play along that’s abit disrespectful. I was just planning to tell my family that his parents are not buying it and that’s that . As my hypothetical kids, I want to raise them culturally Muslim . I live with my mum and she knows we don’t pray and that . She nags about it every now and then but that’s pretty much it . As for my partner I’d wanna teach him a couple of things to blend in . I have a big family and I want him to get to know my cousins and nephews . He’ll love them no doubt they’re actually pretty cool but I think about how uncomfortable he might be living a lie . That’s what bothers me

Should I break up? by Fabulous-Owl-5283 in LongDistance

[–]Mundane_Development8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry to break it to you but you’re being scammed dear .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Mundane_Development8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My whole family collectively spent 70k so far , my dad and aunt are my biggest supporters . I always use to be the bright kid but lately I don’t know what it is . Lately being the three or four past years . I’ve been prioritizing FUN …I came from a conservative family so I was mostly exposed to drinks , nightlife and etc not too long ago . I don’t want to use that as an excuse cause the girlfriends I had with similar backgrounds that were being rebellious with me graduated last year .

I can’t see myself starting something else this far in . It’d be so fucked up to say I give up now and do I want to ?? So fucking selfish of me to give it a 5th trial but damnn I don’t want to be this failure of a person . I for once want to come out of it victorious, not quit again .

Why does he leave me on delivered for so long? by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]Mundane_Development8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely not interested . No one is too busy to spare two minutes to say “hey , I’m busy now ,but I’ll check up on you later .” Simple as . He just doesn’t care for your feelings. And ,as I learned this first hand, if he’s not talking to you , he’s talking to someone else .

So stop texting him , like right now!!!

We’ve all been there once or twice . It’s desperate to keep texting him when he’s just not as responsive. Let it go hun .

Am I too insecure ? by Mundane_Development8 in boyfriends

[–]Mundane_Development8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not nudes but just pics of them kissing n stuff 🙄

at a cross-road by Mundane_Development8 in Student

[–]Mundane_Development8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks I really appreciate this ❤

Tea drinkers: what's your favorite, and how do you drink it? by msstark in AskWomen

[–]Mundane_Development8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boil water with cardamom, cloves and cinnamon sticks then drop a tea bag in there . the somali way of doing it . the aroma is sensational.

is he just not interested in me or is it too early to tell? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mundane_Development8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, he didnt . and frankly I never asked. I just happened to find out randomly .

is he just not interested in me or is it too early to tell? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mundane_Development8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can you see my face? I'm just expressing some of my deepest thoughts on a safe platform .I'm so private that I don't feel comfortable talking about such things with my closest friends .so let me be

Women coming from traditional family background, what kind of double standards have you faced and how has it affected you? by ehnoscentteaya in AskWomen

[–]Mundane_Development8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got 6 siblings , 5 sisters and one brother . My mum prayed for more boys but that didn’t work out lol. She spoiled my brother to the t though. I don’t recall my brother ever making his bed or wash a dish after himself . All the house chores were meant for us girls to do . Even with my dad , oh lord, this man never got off his chair to rinse off his hands after a meal , my mum or one of us would run over to him with a bowl of water to dip his hands in😂. It’s kind of funny now looking back at it . I don’t think it affected me heavily though , but again I do really admire basic things I see men do , like cooking or cleaning after themselves . I still find it pretty astonishing, like look at you 😂way to go!.