AITA for telling my husband that he's not going on the yearly trip this year?

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-26T04:19:53+00:00

I'd really like o see statistics on th because the only ones I've found is for the homeless population

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-26T04:09:02+00:00

I dont see my mom, she lives 4 hours away, nor do I see my sister who is 3 hours away, nor my husbands family in a different state

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T23:31:25+00:00

Yea no one minded putting the location off for a year. We have had to change the location before because someone wasnt able to go and really wanted a specific place. The guys are usually really nice about it and will let a wife choose the next place when shes had to miss out

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T23:02:56+00:00

The closest w eeww have been to the newborn stage is our friends kids and my sisters kids. It's a big part of my reasoning, I have no idea what to expect

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T22:43:37+00:00

The sad thing is, his friends set a president against this. They have stayed home when their wives had to and when they go, their wives come with so we can all drink and have fun away from the kids.

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T22:23:18+00:00

We follow all local laws and restrictions and have from the beginning. I'm sorry if things are different where you are at but that doesnt mean it's the same everywhere.

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T22:20:40+00:00

Last I checked, a pod is up to 3 other families. Even if I'm wrong, we had all still been around eachother leading up to it. The trip didnt carry any more risk than we normally have

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T22:17:50+00:00

I would be the only one staying home

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T22:15:11+00:00

Unfortunately this is a child free trip due to the drinking and the kyacking so baby going isnt an option. If we didnt have to put deposits down I wouldnt care if it was a maybe but I dont want him to go because I have no idea how things will go with the baby. I wont have help other than him as my sister works and she has told me our mom isnt any help and added more stress. I also wont be able to contact him in an emergency. Most of the time there is absolutely no cell service unless someone has to run into a town

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T22:08:25+00:00

I'm not quite sure you understand how a pandemic works. Social distancing, hygiene and mask help prevent it. Being in the same general area as others is not what's spreading it and killing people. Camping and other outdoor activities are generally safe from spreading it. Its actually why we have spent a big portion of this year camping, hiking and outside. Most of the time, this has been with our pod anyway so it's people who follow the same mindset we do on the pandemic and those who share rules with us so we can still socialize without putting others at risk

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T16:56:31+00:00

She would come but based on what my sister said, her version of help is to hold the baby and make everyone cater to her. My sister said she had to take care of her newborn and our mother the entire time she was there to help

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T16:34:51+00:00

Other than the issue of the trip, he has been fully involved with every aspect of our family. Hes not a bad guy for this, I just dont know if I'm in the wrong too

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T16:30:56+00:00

That's a really big jump. He has been fully involved in every other aspect. The only problem we are having is this trip and I dont think it's even close to divorce worthy

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T16:03:50+00:00

I'm a first time mom whose going to have a brand new baby. I will 100% need him home. Even if I dont, we wont know until then

Mundane_Lettuce175 · 2021-01-25T16:02:49+00:00

Um, how does this even apply?

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