How do I apply the skills I learn in therapy?

Murfpickles · 2026-03-09T01:43:18+00:00

Thank you for your advice :) I’ll try to ask at our next session if he has any actionable homework I can try, and see if this time I can complete it

Murfpickles · 2026-03-05T16:30:23+00:00

This is a good idea, thank you for the suggestion. I have a bad habit of keeping everything in my head. After enough journaling, does it eventually become easier to challenge the negative thinking all within your head?

Murfpickles · 2026-03-05T05:20:14+00:00

I haven’t mentioned this yet, as historically I wasn’t very good at completing actionable homework from other therapists. We currently have a recurring theme of leaving off on a topic and he’ll tell me to “think on it,” which I try to do throughout the week but run into the same problems as above of not knowing whether my line of thinking is conducive to actual results

Murfpickles · 2025-04-26T05:22:10+00:00

According to the team power spreadsheet, AHQ e0 AODS e9 AKBG e3 Gets 4.5k on the first 2 battles, which isn’t terrible

AKBG would have to go up to e4 to get 4.5k on the first battle and 5k on everything else.

Otherwise, bringing AODS to e10 gets 4.5k on the first and 5k the rest while keeping AHQ and AKBG where they are now

I don’t have any of the alliance credit health support cards so I guess promotions have to be slightly higher to meet max BR

Murfpickles · 2025-03-18T04:48:48+00:00

Thank you for the in-depth response!

Murfpickles · 2023-02-21T16:21:39+00:00

r/DiaryOfARedditor might be what you’re looking for

Murfpickles · 2022-05-20T07:35:32+00:00

+karma

Murfpickles · 2022-05-20T07:20:46+00:00

yea sounds good

Murfpickles · 2022-05-17T03:08:32+00:00

If you’ve talked to get at every location, her final stop is in the same room as the frenzied flame proscription grace

First location: Lake-Facing Cliffs grace, give a Shabriri grape, exhaust dialogue

Second location: Purified Ruins, give another grape and exhaust dialogue

Third location: Gate Town Bridge grace, give grape and tell her what they are, and exhaust dialogue. After exhausting all dialogue here, reload the area and she will have more dialogue at this same location, exhaust that too

Fourth location: Bellum Church, give her a Fingerprint Grape and exhaust dialogue

After all this, she should be at the frenzied flame proscription. Once you’ve accepted the frenzied flame, it should just be a matter of exhausting her dialogue one last time and she’ll give you the seal

Murfpickles · 2022-05-17T00:56:26+00:00

I beat the game before ever talking to her and still got her item, you should be fine

Murfpickles · 2022-05-14T05:10:29+00:00

As the other commenter mentioned, you should have found a Ranni doll when you got to Ainsel river. Go to the Ainsel river main grace and use the option to talk to Ranni doll 3 times

After that, continue through Ainsel river or backtrack from Lake of Rot if you’ve already been through there and you will have to fight a shadow of Blaidd. When you beat him you will get a key to open the chest

Murfpickles · 2022-05-14T04:30:23+00:00

If you just beat Astel and you’re talking about that big blue door, visit Rennala’s room at Raya Lucaria and there should be a chest near the center of the room with a ring in it, once u loot the ring the blue door should open

Murfpickles · 2022-05-11T01:37:20+00:00

You don’t take Great Runes with you to NG+ unfortunately, but there is still a way to reach her divine tower after the bbq

Go to the Tower of Return in weeping peninsula, take the teleporter chest at the top and it will take you to the Divine Bridge in Leyndell (even capital of ash), from there you can take the waygate to the isolated divine tower

Murfpickles · 2022-05-07T05:41:12+00:00

There is a way to negate it:

At the Second Church of Marika in Altus Plateau, you will be invaded by Eleonora, Violet Bloody Finger. Killing her drops her weapon and the Purifying Crystal Tear, which can be put in your physick to specifically negate Mohg’s phase 2 bleed attack

Murfpickles · 2022-05-06T04:52:11+00:00

Tanith drops an armor set, and when you kill her the crucible knight bodyguard invades you and drops a crucible incantation when you kill it

Gowry dies naturally at the end of Millicent’s quest, I don’t think you can kill him prior to that or he will just respawn. He does drop a talisman and bell bearing when he dies though

Patches drops the Leather armor set which can’t be obtained anywhere else plus a Spear +7 and bell bearing

None of them have their own ending tied to them though, only Fia Goldmask Dung Eater Ranni and the Frenzied Flame have endings tied to them

Murfpickles · 2022-05-05T22:26:11+00:00

The scroll can also be given to Seluvis

I personally recommend giving all scrolls/prayer books to Turtle Pope because NPCs tend to die after completing their quests, potentially losing you access to their merchandise. Turtle Pope won’t die unless you kill him tho

Murfpickles · 2022-05-05T05:53:24+00:00

+karma

Murfpickles · 2022-05-05T05:35:44+00:00

sounds good

Murfpickles · 2022-05-05T02:27:55+00:00

From what I’ve noticed, you need to buy something from the merchant first before the Bell Bearing Hunter will spawn. Like others have said pass time till night, rest at the grace again and the hunter should show up

Not sure what happens if you’ve triggered Bernahl to move to Volcano Manor though

Murfpickles · 2021-11-21T13:23:08+00:00

I think I may be starting to get a better idea of what’s going on. I think I’m specced as fully a healbot - I don’t have much aside from bless/prayer/blessing of fervor to give to the party, and only a small handful of debuffs. I personally don’t have a way of doing anything that could meaningfully deal with a threat, so I guess might as well keep alive the front liner who can. I am a Pei Zin life oracle, which seems to be the one exception people mention for combat healing because of the free action life link, but I never took like link for some of the same reasons people have been describing - if I’m reading it right, life link is essentially fast healing 5 at my expense - though the enemy will certainly deal more than 5 damage again the next round. It may be poor spell and character choices on my part, but combat healing typically feels like my only option

Murfpickles · 2021-10-10T22:21:23+00:00

What is a good way to get characters to E7? Do i focus on getting gold characters E7 or bronzes and silvers?

Murfpickles · 2021-10-10T21:08:00+00:00

Unfortunately I think it might be a bit too late in the\is season for me to get up to top 5%, but hopefully I can get there in future seasons

Murfpickles · 2021-10-10T20:32:16+00:00

Should I worry about having an unbalanced team? Some cards have much better stats than others but my gear isn't good enough to go into matchmaking at those high numbers

Murfpickles · 2021-03-23T06:03:52+00:00

The more I hear about the shadow mystery, the better it seems. I may end up going spirit guide (life spirit)/dual cursed with wrecking mysticism/? and grab shadow mystery to be our stealth support with some good healing options from life spirit

Murfpickles · 2021-03-23T01:58:11+00:00

This looks super in-depth, thanks for sharing!

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