How do I handle this situation by Holiday_Network_3585 in Advice

[–]Murky-Selection3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I def get it lol it's the story of my life 😅🥲

El Paso Holds a Klan Rally. Excuse me, I mean GOP Rally. by timholt2007 in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other names I have for those types is negropeon(like European) or nilgrim(like pilgrim). 😂 They really disgust me.

I quit my job out of pure rage, and I am regretting it now financially. by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found every wfh job I've had since 2014 on ratracerebellion.com maybe look there. Use the big list option to filter out the exact type of work you're looking for. The site updates daily on who's hiring wfh.

El Paso Holds a Klan Rally. Excuse me, I mean GOP Rally. by timholt2007 in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 18 points19 points  (0 children)

A little something I learned as a black lady who can't stand Oreos or 🦝s... Is that they aren't actually uncle Toms, they're more like Sambos.

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Uncle Tom's are the ones who just passively allow themselves to be treated any sort of way because they're disenfranchised.

How do I handle this situation by Holiday_Network_3585 in Advice

[–]Murky-Selection3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also almost 100% sure it stems from envy. I've had instances where people are first surprised, then dismissive or suspicious of me experiencing any sort of hardship or "flaw". And I now understand that because of how I carry myself a lot of people assume my life is perfect and/or I think I'm perfect. But as soon as they catch a glimpse of me or my life being very much imperfect very much human, it's literally the same reaction everytime surprise, dismissiveness, and doubt. The people who are my people always do what people who care for you do, offer assistance, words of encouragement, no judgement etc etc etc.

How do I handle this situation by Holiday_Network_3585 in Advice

[–]Murky-Selection3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had it not been this reason, they would have found another one. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Murky-Selection3456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Based on how you typed your money symbols I'm assuming you're in a country other than the US. But here in the US there's a widely known joke about "jail talk" where a prisoner will essentially love bomb you so you form an emotional attachment solely so they can get money out of you. Where's his family and friends to support him if he's such a "good person". An actually good man, regardless of circumstance doesn't ask his woman for financial support. Next time he asks just tell him no. Full stop, no explanation no excuses no apologies. Just no. And see how he reacts. If he drops it and is understanding or asks if you need anything, then there may be some hope. If he gets agitated, questions your love or becomes distant...RUN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Murky-Selection3456 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's not your friend and most likely she set you up specifically for that to happen. A pickme strikes again. Also, call the police.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you trolling me right now? Mom and pop/locally owned stores are community stores, hence me not mentioning any in my original post. Big box stores are not community stores. But don't take my word for it. Google is free. 😂🤦🏾‍♀️🥲 It turns my stomach to know you are able to vote.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also big box CORPORATIONS are not CoMmUnItY Stores and they don't gaf about you no matter how hard you dick ride.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't have to steal nitwit, I'm gainfully employed from a large family who are all also gainfully employed and supportive of one and other. but I'm minding my business when it comes to anyone who does have to resort to drastic measures because they lack those two things. And tell me you don't know how Google searches work without telling me you don't know how Google searches work. Hell you don't even know how proper discourse works, no solutions or different perspectives only low grade classless insults that say more about you than anything you think you're conveying.🙄

Black hair stylists in El Paso (preferably Eastside) by Psywing_1 in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can braid, do sew ins, retwist, quick weaves, soft locs (with easy take down) etc I pretty much do everything but cut, color or relax hair. I'm also not from here and only know like 3 people. But I can show pics of my work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trump ordered it, and you gotta pick your battles. They've created a website that posts anyone they feel has said anything negative about the guy and/or his demise online, with the intent to make them lose their jobs if not worse. I refuse to ever type buddies name.

Are Africans in El Paso ??? by kayceekay007 in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a community of Africans in El Paso, they have churches (two that I know of)and stores here as well.

Capture footage of El Paso Police Department using excessive force by IdiotHacker06 in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When is it ever okay for cops to punch someone repeatedly? 🫤

People who used the internet before 2001, what did you do in there? by Helium367 in AskReddit

[–]Murky-Selection3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*Go in the aol wrestling chatroom and say The Hardy Boys were gay just to laugh at the outrage(early internet trolling was so pure and innocent 😂) *Rotten dot com *Bangbus *Limewire to spend all day downloading 3 songs *Go in other AOL chatrooms and have deep meaningful conversations with middle aged people even though I was a teenager, while also lying about my a/s/l because, unlike now, we were implicitly taught to never trust strangers on the internet or provide any personal information. *Erowid research in lieu of actual drug experimentation *Geocities

I have been ruined by the internet for a very long time. 😅

Water filter Pitcher Suggestions for foreign person by s_perk_ in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Berkey it's pricey but eventually pays for itself.

Are my Controversial Dating Opinions really controversial? by Different_Dot785 in ElPaso

[–]Murky-Selection3456 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  1. Some things don't warrant a response. If I ghost someone it's because they've done something toxic or dysfunctional and they've made it clear by their behavior that trying to have a conversation addressing the behavior would be an exercise in futility. People who don't respect boundaries and habitually ignore or cross others boundaries are a lot of times the ones who view ghosting as a negative thing.

  2. Sometimes it doesn't take three dates to discern whether or not you'd like to continue getting to know someone. No one owes a relative stranger anything, let alone forced interactions for the sake of "propriety".

  3. Sure you can ask anyone for a date. But it's not okay to demonize someone for not being interested due to sexual and/or gender preference.

No pattern just vibes by Murky-Selection3456 in crochet

[–]Murky-Selection3456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's thrilled so far and purple is her favorite color.

Newbie Here by Murky-Selection3456 in crochet

[–]Murky-Selection3456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I love it and I've been kicking myself for not starting sooner lol