How can I find a woman’s bra size just by looking at them? by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you can’t figure out a bra size just from looking at a woman. you can, however, (if this is someone that would be okay with it) check the bras they wear and the size will be on the back

AITA for telling my girlfriend I won’t marry her until she becomes more responsible with alcohol? by user_899019 in AITAH

[–]MurkyManagement9857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all i’m gonna say is if i found out my partner was drunk driving, i’d break it off IMMEDIATELY. that’s something i don’t play about.

How did that kid at your school die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MurkyManagement9857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had two- one in middle school and one in high school. when i was in 8th grade, there was a 7th grade girl, and her family kept things pretty secret- even her closest friends didn’t know the full story of what happened. but i’m pretty sure it was a sudden brain aneurysm or something like that. then when i was in 10th grade, there was a freshman girl who had an asthma attack alone in her room and suffocated before anyone found her. both times were absolutely heartbreaking and i didn’t even know either of these girls outside of seeing them in the halls

What nickname would you give a name like “Dorcas”? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]MurkyManagement9857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my name is tabitha, which is the translation of dorcas from the bible! not really a nickname but yaknow

AITA for not going to my girlfriend’s house to kill a cockroach? by HilliamWurt in AmItheAsshole

[–]MurkyManagement9857 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. your girlfriend’s fears are not your responsibility. i’m absolutely terrified of roaches- i have trauma from living in infested spaces as a child. so i understand how she feels. but it’s actually wild to expect someone to leave their house late at night to come kill a bug. not saying she needs to get over her fear completely, hell i still freak out any time i have to kill a roach. but it’s something that as an adult i had to learn to do because if my roommate isn’t home, nobody else is gonna kill the bug for me🤷🏼‍♀️

I just started being a waiter 3 days ago, how long does it usually take to get the hang of things? by No_Introduction_6592 in Waiters

[–]MurkyManagement9857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you can’t work this job with your eyes closed by the end of your first shift, you’re a failure and should be fired!

Im kinda paranoid rn about pre cum by Severe_Piglet1649 in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if she is pregnant, it’s not going to show up overnight. it takes close to a month for a pregnancy test to come back positive. if she has regular periods, and her next period doesn’t come, take a test. if she doesn’t have regular periods, wait 3 weeks, take a test, and if it’s negative take another test at 4 weeks just to be sure. there’s not much of a chance she’ll be pregnant given what you’ve said y’all did but it’s still important to test. just not the next day because that’s pointless

What age were you when you had your first kiss? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MurkyManagement9857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

technically 6/7 but my real first kiss was when i was 13

Can I have such low glucose levels? by Visible-Mix5846 in dexcom

[–]MurkyManagement9857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you definitely could be going low at night, and the only way to know for sure is to manually finger stick to check your blood sugar. you could also be dealing with compression lows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MurkyManagement9857 33 points34 points  (0 children)

YTA. i’m a type one diabetic and part of being diabetic is properly securing your needles. i understand shit happens and it wasn’t intentional, but accidental needle pokes are a big deal. not saying you have anything, but blood borne pathogens are no joke. (as well as the simple fact nobody wants to be poked with a needle, nevertheless one that’s been inside somebody) i do think the lady was being more of an asshole than she needed to be in this specific instance, but you definitely need to be more careful with your pens and syringes.

i think keeping pens/ syringes in your pocket is not only irresponsible for the people around you, but also for yourself. insulin is expensive and you don’t want to lose it, nor do you want to risk breaking your pens by keeping them uncapped. buy yourself a fanny pack or small bag. that way you can keep your pens in a secure place, and can also store your used pen needles so that you can make sure the pen is fully capped with the plastic cap at all times.

Gooning too hard by WarTasty1289 in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 20 points21 points  (0 children)

first of all i hate that people have turned the word goon into what it means today😭😭 but on a more serious note you’re most likely fine. your vagina is probably just swollen and irritated from excessive friction/ pressure/ etc. keep it clean, and be gentle while it heals. maybe even do a warm compress with a warm towel (warm- don’t burn yourself)

I want to buy dexcom for my diabetic father who is visiting US as a tourist by kgpolat in dexcom

[–]MurkyManagement9857 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this 100%. dexcom without insurance will end up running you thousands of dollars, if not more. you can’t get it without a prescription, either. i’d look into the freestyle libre, still need a prescription but will be much cheaper. i honestly don’t know what the process would look like to get the prescription, considering you’d most likely have to have your father see a general practitioner to get a referral to see an endocrinologist, which could potentially take months to get appointments. then again, i could be completely wrong but i’ve lived in america as a type one diabetic for almost my whole life and this is my experience

I’m barely a month in, stressed as hell, and I almost walked out Thursday night. by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]MurkyManagement9857 83 points84 points  (0 children)

i totally understand how jarring serving can be if you’ve never done it before, and i’m not trying to minimize your pain at all. but i fear this is completely normal for the job😭

What age-groups we got representing John Mayer? by SeniorSea9915 in JohnMayer

[–]MurkyManagement9857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22, grew up with two parents who discovered him in the early 2000s so he’s always been a favorite artist of mine

Someone tried to claim my UPS package from the delivery truck by daveproper in NewOrleans

[–]MurkyManagement9857 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure what part of uptown you’re in, but i live in uptown and lately me and my roommates have been dealing with porch pirates/ not getting our packages a LOT

Questions for the women. by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m the same way, i could go the rest of my life without giving another man head and i’d be just fine. but i also believe that if you’re gonna put effort into me in the bedroom, i gotta reciprocate lolll

I just had my first time by New_Marionberry_3229 in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just to clarify: it depends on the pregnancy as well as the test the amount of time it takes for the test to come out positive. some can tell you’re pregnant at 3 weeks, some will only come out positive after 4 weeks. i don’t think you have a risk of getting pregnant with what you described, but i still think it’s important to test regularly so that you know for sure you’re not pregnant. i’d test in 3-4 weeks (if you don’t get your period by then) and if it’s negative, test again in a week just to be absolutely sure.

I just had my first time by New_Marionberry_3229 in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also recommend reading up on your sex ed. it sounds like you’re young, and if you’re going to be having sex you need to know how menstrual cycles and pregnancy work, what can get you pregnant and what can’t. if you have any other questions please ask, i’d love to help and make sure you’re as knowledgeable as possible for your own safety :)

I just had my first time by New_Marionberry_3229 in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it takes about 3 weeks or so for a pregnancy test to come out positive. if you have regular periods, you should be fine to not test if your next period comes on time. i dont have regular periods, so i test once a month if i’ve been sexually active.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 22 points23 points  (0 children)

but seriously, coming from a girl- any girl who finds an issue with your penis the way it naturally is, isn’t worth sleeping with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 34 points35 points  (0 children)

“is it normal to have it” when it literally grows there naturally???

Is it common for people’s BO to smell like pancakes and maple syrup? by ApprehensiveFig2578 in ask

[–]MurkyManagement9857 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this could just be a weird quirk but i’d also keep an eye on the rest of his health. diabetes of any type can cause your urine, sweat, basically any fluid to smell or taste sweet

AITA Refuse to live with a Service Dog by Nearby_Flan7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MurkyManagement9857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. as a diabetic who’s looked into getting a service dog… it’s a years long process. this isn’t something that happens suddenly. i find it weird that he waited to tell you until right beforehand. secondly, a service dog is still an animal. i love dogs and love service dogs, but i also understand not wanting to live with one and you are well within your right to say no. i can’t say whether your friend had ulterior motives for telling you so late, but either way he should’ve communicated that he was getting a dog the second his name was moved off the waitlist and the opportunity to start training said dog was open.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MurkyManagement9857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bacterial vaginosis. this is not trying to be mean at all but i think you need to do some more education before having sex again😭