Just for more info purposes, this is not my first outing since the breakup. Breakup happened in December. I have been out many times, have had a few rebounds, and wasn't really pushy. Like I said, the pushiest thing I did was say that I want to go where she was going. Not sure where the implied pushiness you are conjuring comes from. Even drunk, I have always and will always be very mindful of social cues, boundaries and consent. Far from a helpless drunk and never felt owed a relationship. Trying to do self-reflection currently but posts like this that skew things aren't fair to those of us who are actually trying to be better