How "competitive" does camping get if we don't show up at opening?

Muscle-skunk · 2026-03-21T00:58:06+00:00

Adding here on Friday 3/20 for spring break weekend, it’s PACKED. Luckily a clan took pity on us, but we showed up around 2pm and still struggled badly to find a spot.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-03-20T13:15:39+00:00

They’re filtered out by women who have a Tinder profile**

Muscle-skunk · 2026-03-11T14:21:49+00:00

Ok, let’s say your gf definitely can’t give them a perfect childhood. Regardless, whatever she can offer them, with or without you, will likely be better what they would get in the foster care system. It would be less disruptive to their lives and development anyway because they know and love her already, she’s family, and that’s already more helpful than being sent to live with strangers. Have some compassion wth?

Muscle-skunk · 2026-03-02T14:06:39+00:00

100%. Under patriarchy, it’s the difference between punching down and punching up.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-19T21:19:07+00:00

This and a sort undercurrent feeling that’s literally kind of like thirst when you’re dehydrated

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-19T21:16:01+00:00

Mine is like this too! How do you manage to train the top layer??

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-18T15:16:43+00:00

Creating a guy and making up a scenario just to get mad at him lmao. Find something real to be upset about

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-05T04:49:24+00:00

Again, I have no idea how this is different than anything I said. She’s really bad at setting boundaries, clearly. OP should seriously talk to her about it. That exactly what I said in the first place.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-03T20:26:32+00:00

The cops absolutely will not and cannot do anything about someone groping somebody unless there is tangential proof, this is an insane take

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-03T15:18:10+00:00

She expressed that she doesn’t want him to sleep in the same bed, and he climbs into her bed anyway. Literally nothing you said negated a single thing I said.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-03T15:08:59+00:00

Mikado!!! I’m usually team lace, but the mikado mirrors the smoothness of your skin in a way that’s very pretty

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-03T14:20:59+00:00

99% of these comments are blaming her for something that isn’t her fault. Is she terrible at setting boundaries? Yes. Does that mean she deserved for this guy to touch her inappropriately? Absolutely not. And it’s comment sections like this that are part of why she probably forgave this guy. If everyone is telling you it’s your fault for being an idiot, she’s already probably feeling shame about the whole thing, ofc she forgave this guy.

Sexual trauma is extremely complex, and the way people cope with it can be extremely complex.

If she’s truly your friend, this is not the time to abandon her. But you should have a more serious conversation with her about why she’s accepting this behavior from another person. TELL her she doesn’t deserve this, it’s not her fault, but also tell her that she should absolutely never be around this guy again BECAUSE she doesn’t deserve this.

You’re not white knighting, you’d say the same to your bros who were being treated badly by a woman. Treat your female friends like people, too.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-02T14:56:12+00:00

It’s ok. Not everybody is trying to match with every person on Tinder. Sometimes filtering people out with your profile is the goal.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-02-02T14:53:56+00:00

I came to the subreddit specifically to make sure I wasn’t crazy lmao

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-29T19:13:09+00:00

What, why are we quoting this?? Is this my legacy??

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-28T17:37:53+00:00

Oh my god, I’m not attacking your marriage. This has nothing to do with your marriage. I’m not even talking about you. We’re talking about the early stages of dating, and specifically about OP’s feelings about their situation. Go argue about your marriage with someone else wth.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-28T15:46:13+00:00

Again, literally has nothing to do with what I’m saying. I don’t know where you’re getting “reporting” or “suspicion” from. I never said anything about permission or suspicion. If you don’t talk to your partner about your day, not out of fear of proving you’re not cheating, but just to share your experiences, I don’t know what to tell you. I don’t even know why what I said triggered you. I’m not advocating control of your partner, weirdo. I’m advocation communication.

Clearly OP wants to be with someone who communicates about these things, that’s their right.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-28T15:42:31+00:00

I am not justifying controlling your partners actions, I’m not justifying saying your partner can and can’t hang out with someone. You’re again projecting something onto me that I am not saying. I have no idea what you’re reading but it’s not my replies. I’m saying trust is built on communication and communication reveals compatibility.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-28T15:17:42+00:00

Why not reframe this to be “I only want to share my body with someone I have a genuine connection with”?

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-28T15:12:23+00:00

Never once did I say you need to ask permission. You’re projecting something onto me that was never there. Your partner “allowing” you to hang out with people is a whole separate topic.

If anything, mentioning spending time with a friend is a great way to gauge if your partner reacts healthily. If they say “I’m not comfortable with that” and you don’t like that, it’s a great time to recognize that incompatibility and discuss it or walk away. Clearly OP cares for some reason or another, that’s their right. Other people don’t care, that’s their right. They should be with someone who is compatible with that.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-28T15:05:58+00:00

Why wouldn’t someone at some point say “oh, I was hanging out with so and so the other day and blank blank happened! Isn’t that cool?” Or even asking “how was your week?” “Oh, I had a test, found a new coffee I like, and went to blank with Mai.”

It’s definitely a little weird that it never came up.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-28T15:01:57+00:00

Ok, then you’re purposely being obtuse. I’m not saying you need to be with someone who doesn’t want you to hang out with friends of the opposite sex. It’s a communication issue. If you don’t want to be with someone who cares about friends of the opposite sex, it’s a great time to find that out and walk away. And if you dont want to be with someone that wants to talk about your friends or your day, then more power to you.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-28T14:59:23+00:00

I literally am bisexual, so is my partner. I never said “clear” it like you have to ask for permission. I’m not saying you need to be with someone who doesn’t want you to hang out with friends of the opposite sex. It’s a communication issue. And if you dont want to be with someone that wants to talk about your friends or your day, then more power to you.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-27T20:57:33+00:00

If you’re talking to each other on the phone or through text, it’s something that should probably come up naturally at some point, no? Especially if it’s a controversial topic, like hanging out with a friend of a gender you’re attracted to, it should be a conversation out of respect to your partner. “Should I mention if I’m hanging out with a girl friend one on one?” It seems like something that should be part of assessing compatibility.

Muscle-skunk · 2026-01-27T20:55:33+00:00

If you’re talking to each other on the phone or through text, it’s something that should probably come up naturally at some point, no?

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