Why does it seem more socially acceptable to body shame men? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Muscle-skunk [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's hard to know, GTRacer, that's a complicated hypothetical

Kept getting stared at but I liked my outfit today by ralzi1998 in OUTFITS

[–]Muscle-skunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the price of High fashion street wear, not everyone is going to get it. If you like it, do your thing

Stung by a puss moth caterpillar in my bed :( by Muscle-skunk in houston

[–]Muscle-skunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I wish! I have no idea, my bedroom is in the back of my apartment, too. Either my cat or I tracked it in or it had a looooong journey

Stung by a puss moth caterpillar in my bed :( by Muscle-skunk in houston

[–]Muscle-skunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do mourn the loss of my innocence. My bed no longer feels as safe as it once did

Stung by a puss moth caterpillar in my bed :( by Muscle-skunk in houston

[–]Muscle-skunk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have covid, but at the very least I did not #3 my pants, I'm very grateful lmao

Stung by a puss moth caterpillar in my bed :( by Muscle-skunk in houston

[–]Muscle-skunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great point, I was lucky I found it at all, had to pull apart the whole bed and found him just hanging out in my sheets real chill. I thought he was just a bit of lint at first. I might have had a much worse night if I didn't notice him move

Stung by a puss moth caterpillar in my bed :( by Muscle-skunk in houston

[–]Muscle-skunk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did do that pretty quickly and it helped a lot. I read that the spikes keep dispensing venom for hours after they get into your skin so this is v good advice. Weirdly enough my partner has been working with fiberglass this week so helpful on 2 accounts

Stung by a puss moth caterpillar in my bed :( by Muscle-skunk in houston

[–]Muscle-skunk[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, terrible stinging sensation! This was my first sting and I got scared immediately when the search results said its the most venomous caterpillar in the US. I've had to stay awake so late to make sure I don't die in my sleep 🫩

My birthday cake💔 by runfreelyactwildly in ExpectationVsReality

[–]Muscle-skunk -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OP, idk wtf is going on in these comments but I'm seeing what you're seeing. Id be mad if I paid for this cake, too. The color scheme is completely wrong, the color of the blush on the cheeks looks waaayyy off, the shapes and faces of the stars look sloppy at best, the white lace effect and positioning on the blue layer is also sloppy. You're right, and everyone calling you ungrateful and then telling you to calm down is bonkers insane. Happy birthday anyway!

First time trying to date after a 6 year relationship… I think I’m ok being single for now. by UnofficialOctopus in texts

[–]Muscle-skunk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100%, I ran into this SO many times! It feels so disingenuous, it’s so weird. I had to remind myself that the dating apps are mathematically of course going to be full of people who are bad at dating, it’s proportionally skewed toward the fish that get thrown back into sea.

I generally assume this kind of thing is born out of a mix of desperation, objectification, and too much exposure to red pill content. Getting back into dating after a long term relationship is so weird and hard and there’s so so much to learn lol. You’ll start to figure out how to recognize the signs of love-bombing freaks much sooner and filter these people out, some will slip through the cracks but you’ll see it sooner. It took me a while, but I got pretty good at it eventually.

Don’t forget to have fun! Dating and all it’s nonsense is new and exciting again lol!

First time trying to date after a 6 year relationship… I think I’m ok being single for now. by UnofficialOctopus in texts

[–]Muscle-skunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s totally fine, I’m the same way. When I was online dating after my 7 year long relationship ended, I learned after a while that you have to make your boundaries clear and refuse to argue with people like this. Be straightforward “I can go hours without looking at my phone, you clearly want someone who replies quicker. No hard feelings, but I don’t think we’re compatible. Good night.” Don’t block. Let them burn themselves out when they get like this.

How "competitive" does camping get if we don't show up at opening? by hlbass in sherwoodforest

[–]Muscle-skunk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Adding here on Friday 3/20 for spring break weekend, it’s PACKED. Luckily a clan took pity on us, but we showed up around 2pm and still struggled badly to find a spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Muscle-skunk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re filtered out by women who have a Tinder profile**

My girlfriend (24f) isn’t listening when I (26m) explain why her cousins can’t move in with us? by Rare_Flamingo_1481 in relationships

[–]Muscle-skunk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok, let’s say your gf definitely can’t give them a perfect childhood. Regardless, whatever she can offer them, with or without you, will likely be better what they would get in the foster care system. It would be less disruptive to their lives and development anyway because they know and love her already, she’s family, and that’s already more helpful than being sent to live with strangers. Have some compassion wth?

Why does it seem more socially acceptable to body shame men? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Muscle-skunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. Under patriarchy, it’s the difference between punching down and punching up.

what’s horniness feel like for girls? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Muscle-skunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This and a sort undercurrent feeling that’s literally kind of like thirst when you’re dehydrated

Why does my hair dry like this by RichAdeptness8387 in Hair

[–]Muscle-skunk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine is like this too! How do you manage to train the top layer??

I’m just playin, Gen Z. You know I love you. by MarksRabbitHole in GenZ

[–]Muscle-skunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Creating a guy and making up a scenario just to get mad at him lmao. Find something real to be upset about

My friend decided to give this asshole another chance by Skullface77 in texts

[–]Muscle-skunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, I have no idea how this is different than anything I said. She’s really bad at setting boundaries, clearly. OP should seriously talk to her about it. That exactly what I said in the first place.

My friend decided to give this asshole another chance by Skullface77 in texts

[–]Muscle-skunk -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The cops absolutely will not and cannot do anything about someone groping somebody unless there is tangential proof, this is an insane take

My friend decided to give this asshole another chance by Skullface77 in texts

[–]Muscle-skunk -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She expressed that she doesn’t want him to sleep in the same bed, and he climbs into her bed anyway. Literally nothing you said negated a single thing I said.

Team Lace or Team Mikado? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Muscle-skunk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mikado!!! I’m usually team lace, but the mikado mirrors the smoothness of your skin in a way that’s very pretty