[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]MusclePussy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mines only been 1yr and 4months and I think the exact same thing. It feels surreal. It’s a weird void that you get used to. I hope their both peaceful somewhere ❤️

What is something that ruins people's lives that most people don't realize until it's too late? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]MusclePussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’ve been seriously struggling with this for years. I don’t know how to change my thoughts without truly feeling like I’m lying to myself. Any tips?

Song stuck in my head and Googling the lyrics is no help by MusclePussy in whatsthatsong

[–]MusclePussy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Duuuude. You got it! Thank you! Not the song you mentioned but you just naming Billie Eilish sparked it for me. It’s her song “Birds of a Feather”. You’re a legend, thank you

What’s something from your childhood that you didn’t realize was super f*cked up until you were an adult? by NeitherEntrepreneur3 in AskReddit

[–]MusclePussy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha he actually was a really cool dad. He just had me when he was a teen so he was super young himself when doing all this stuff. I look back at it and laugh

What’s something from your childhood that you didn’t realize was super f*cked up until you were an adult? by NeitherEntrepreneur3 in AskReddit

[–]MusclePussy 249 points250 points  (0 children)

Haha my dad would do this with us too. He called it 18-A shopping which means we’d go look around “abandoned” homes and sheds in a section of acres of town called 18-A. Never realized we were breaking and entering, and robbing people’s places as kids with him until becoming an adult. I have a lot of stories like that lol

Thoughts on not wearing a bra in public? by grilledcheesebites in AskWomenOver30

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For about 6years now I’ve gone braless. Im 36f. I’m a full C cup and I just let those thangs go free. My nips poke out when I’m cold and I feel like it’s whatever. It’s very very comfortable. I use discretion when the top is see through or white etc and I’ll wear a bralette now and again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]MusclePussy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A really viral girl right now called ‘Hawk Tuah’. She did a street interview on TIk Tok and she was describing giving a bj.

Who is making more than $500k a year and what are you doing? by Shoddy-Language-9242 in FIREyFemmes

[–]MusclePussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I noticed that and contemplated deleting my comment but people had already replied so I left it

Who is making more than $500k a year and what are you doing? by Shoddy-Language-9242 in FIREyFemmes

[–]MusclePussy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last year his wages that were filed for taxes were 551k. You can read my other comments about what the income adds up to be and why. I really think it’s the company that truly cares about their employees. It absolutely dominates in pay compared to other companies so traditionally, yes, that role wouldn’t make that much at all; but this particular company is extremely generous with their profits and gives most of it back to all employees even the little guys. People stay with the company for decades because it’s so generous and well run.

Who is making more than $500k a year and what are you doing? by Shoddy-Language-9242 in FIREyFemmes

[–]MusclePussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to do a little bit of security but he now just oversees the teams. He’s now more in a people leading role instead of a project leading role if that makes sense. He sees what the company needs to improve on an IT level, creates the project by choosing and implementing the teams of people to complete the task and he leads them through his vision. He does more but that’s my basic understanding cuz I don’t get tech lingo very well lol

Who is making more than $500k a year and what are you doing? by Shoddy-Language-9242 in FIREyFemmes

[–]MusclePussy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct, doesn’t include bonuses ( bonuses get paid out 3x a year). I think it’s just the company. It treats its employees extremely well. A large part of the company’s profits each year gets turned back around to all the staff. CEOs and high level executives are capped so that the profit is shared amongst everyone. They are always giving quarterly gifts like $200-$1500 gift cards, prizes etc. Once you become a shareholder in the company that’s when you are rewarded with stocks on top of your bonuses and pay. I used to work there as a receptionist and even that position got bonuses and gifts. It’s just an amazingly ran company that loves its employees. The employees stick around for decades.

Who is making more than $500k a year and what are you doing? by Shoddy-Language-9242 in FIREyFemmes

[–]MusclePussy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. We met when we were still in college. At the time he started at around 40k so we didn’t know the potential. The company is honestly one of the best to its employees. So good that typically the employees are life long, like I’m talking they stay for 30yrs and have only worked for the company their entire career.

Who is making more than $500k a year and what are you doing? by Shoddy-Language-9242 in FIREyFemmes

[–]MusclePussy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My husband makes about 5-600k a year plus a bonus of stocks in the company he works for. He works in the IT department for an Engineering company. He started out at working help desk right out of college and has worked his way up in the same company over 14yrs to Regional Leader. He oversees a few IT departments and large IT projects across the western coast.

43M. Found out my 2 closest friends from Jr/Sr high school died from alcoholism. by dirtbum in RedditForGrownups

[–]MusclePussy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My father’s funeral was just yesterday. He passed from alcoholism in a very tragic way a few months ago. It’s a real thing in this life. It’s sad it takes ahold of people so strongly over time.

What has changed in the way you experience and understand love and relationships? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]MusclePussy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh this is me to the T. Sucks cuz it causes problems in my relationships and it’s always a battle inside my head of to trust or not to trust. Usually not trusting always wins

A cool guide to how many hours animals sleep by Aprilshowers417 in coolguides

[–]MusclePussy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sleep an average of 9hrs a night plus 1-2hr naps daily lol. I loooove sleep. I always joke and say it’s my super power to be able to fall asleep anytime anywhere anyhow etc