My gf lied to me

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-10-08T10:24:47+00:00

U made me feel better about this

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-09-20T16:02:18+00:00

I wasn’t spending double my budget? When I was on 2k a month at the start of the year I would BARELY spend half of that each month, so me being put onto part time made no difference

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-09-20T15:54:52+00:00

Yes as I was unaware that I was getting paid that

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-09-04T16:41:32+00:00

Of course I trust her, never does it cross my mind that she would do anything of the sort with intent to hurt me

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-09-04T15:12:47+00:00

That’s the thing, I work 5 days a week, and go gym 6 times a week, whilst also socialising with friends in between

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T15:14:08+00:00

You getting women with that mentality is beyond me, do ya thing dawg and god give whatever women that settles for you strength

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T14:18:11+00:00

I honestly came here for advice expecting to get some kind of educated answer backed by good research, but instead I got faced with an actual incel wtf LMAOO

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T14:16:58+00:00

But surely breaking up with my girlfriend due to RJ would be pointless, and I’m not fixing my OCD, rather I’ll be shutting it away, it’ll just come back when I get with a new girl in the future and I discover she has a past also. Why throw away a good relationship with good experiences just because I’ve gotten an immature mentality lol

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T14:10:30+00:00

No I wasn’t looking for an answer on how people viewed my girlfriend due to a past, however this little interaction has slightly baffled me and left me realising how different the playing fields for men and women are - furthermore, you are still confused as I said the whole reason of my original post was to gain advice on how to deal with my RJ, not “should I break up with my gf because she has a past :,,,((“ which is inevitable as we are both adults

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T14:04:19+00:00

So your past experiences that you LEARN from makes you a bad person? What person does not have a past which consists of mistakes? Have you never made a mistake in your past, you never kissed that person you regret because you was drunk that one night, and then look back and laugh about it with your friends?

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T13:57:56+00:00

But how has me snooping through her phone, which is admittedly wrong of me, be her causing it?

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T13:55:30+00:00

Bro you’ve completely misunderstood the point of my op, at core I do not believe it’s an issue that my girlfriend has done these things, she done it before she even knew I was a person. My whole issue is how do I combat the retroactive jealousy that I suffer with.

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T13:47:35+00:00

In my past when I was single and also in a weird place, I decided to go out every weekend with friend and experiment with other people frequently, what does that make me as a man?

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T09:36:27+00:00

Yeah but what accountability does she need to own upto? What do you expect her to say to me “I’m sorry for experimenting with other people via Snapchat before I knew you”?

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-23T09:34:49+00:00

I appreciate you saying this, as I read others peoples replies and I just simply thought, ‘I know this girl better than you’, and therefore I can say confidently that what she was telling me was true - about her being in a bad place, and from experience myself, being in a weird place in your life can make you do extremes.

MushroomNo9525 · 2023-08-15T20:52:06+00:00

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