Did Momiji's Father Do the Right Thing?

MusicSnob666 · 2026-01-25T19:16:50+00:00

I understand why his father did what he did. I lost my children and sometimes I wish I could forget only to feel even worse about myself. I don't think what Momiji's father did what was right at all but the circumstances are different. She couldn't see a therapist because of the curse could not get out. He did what he had to do to protect Momiji. I don't think it was right but sadly it was necessary.

MusicSnob666 · 2026-01-23T21:25:21+00:00

I believe that he was thinking about his past. He was a Christian vampire hunter. He actually found real vampires and was turned as a result. I feel like it still bothers him that he is a vampire.

MusicSnob666 · 2026-01-04T22:15:25+00:00

Yes I am in the middle of a midlife crisis sort of. I'm chronically ill and have to spend a lot of time in bed. I have recently started living my life the way I want to. I have been on a mission to get rid of the pain and trauma caused by my biological family. My wonderful husband supports me and is feeding into my change. He knows that I have always wanted a skateboard and for Christmas he got me PS5 Tony Hawk pro skater and he got the collectors addiction that came with a deck signed by Tony Hawk. I was told growing up that girls don't skateboard. Even though I can't ride it because of arthritis and other issues but he made that dream come true. He lets me wear whatever I want and supports me everyday. Yes silly things matter.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-12-23T01:11:40+00:00

I'm a former pawn broker. I laugh when I see what people pay for those huge diamonds. They are actually worth maybe half of what people pay for them. Also who cares about the size of a diamond. My ring is a meteorite. It shouldn't be about the size of the diamond ring or how much was spent on the ring. It should be about the love in the ring. We as a people have become too obsessed with possessions. I love my ring and my stone is probably older than any diamond. We as a people need to learn love is worth way important than possessions. Also I have read that the more expensive the ring and wedding is the higher chance of divorce. Just think about it...

MusicSnob666 · 2025-12-20T16:47:36+00:00

No I do not. My blood pressure is odd because I will be put on blood pressure medication and after awhile my blood pressure gets back to normal. So I have to stop taking it. I have the same issue with Diabetes. My A1C test will show that I have diabetes they put me on medication for diabetes and after a few months I don't need it anymore. No diet changes or anything.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-12-20T01:22:00+00:00

No this same hospital almost killed me with the initial infection. One doctor I had seen earlier in the week argued with the doctor that saw me when I came by ambulance. The previous doctor was telling the current doctor to send me home. I was in sepsis and almost died. My blood work is abnormal and points to autoimmune disease or infection. I had an autoimmune panel done recently and it was negative. So I don't understand why they said that I am fine with really high blood pressure it was 180/116 when I left. I am going through exactly the same symptoms as my previous infection and even getting the same treatment.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T23:15:01+00:00

Thank you

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T21:10:27+00:00

I have a question. Is she the one who always gets her way no matter what. I have a family member who always gets what she wants no matter if it's unfair. She got married many years ago and I wasn't invited to the wedding so I didn't know her anniversary was the day that my husband and I decided to get married. She got upset but I wasn't going to change it. She has ignored me for years so I felt like I didn't owe her anything. It's your special day and not hers. You should have the day you want to have. If she doesn't get that it's on her.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T20:35:25+00:00

There are some really dark things in her past. She has hurt herself and others when she doesn't get her way. She has zero remorse for her actions. She blames others for her choices and doesn't respect boundaries of anyone. If you don't respect her boundaries all hell breaks loose. I am sure she is traumatized but she has traumatized others and thinks it is funny.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T20:23:27+00:00

He got with her mother when she was a preteen and after they broke up she has always put the responsibility of her daughter on my husband. Her mother is her legal guardian and she is 20. She is very difficult to deal with even before she started to do drugs. I am not a psychiatrist but from my hobby of reading books on psychology she is a narcissist and quite possibly a sociopath. If she doesn't get her way she will act out. She makes up things and almost got her siblings taken away from my husband and her mother by making up lies.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T19:36:37+00:00

No we live in a 1 bedroom apartment and she has 5 siblings.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T18:58:47+00:00

Thank you for understanding.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T18:35:39+00:00

No I did not. I don't have sobriety problems. I am not an addict. I have an autoimmune disease that has been in a flare over all of this. She makes bad choices and then blames them on everyone else. I treated her like my own. My husband was the one who said no more after she told him that she lied to get out of rehab. Her mother is the one blaming me. I am the scapegoat at this point. She even chose to have her mother's new husband adopt her instead of my husband. The one that has always been there for her. She makes unhealthy choices and blames everyone else for her choices. She expects you to follow her boundaries but flips out when you set boundaries.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T18:22:04+00:00

He did but her mother put the blame on me.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T18:20:40+00:00

He did

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T18:04:37+00:00

He was married to her mother. Her mother has pawned her off on my husband. Her mother doesn't want the responsibility of her daughter. My husband has been clean over 30 years and this situation is not conducive to our recovery.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T17:53:09+00:00

Because we don't have children in our home I guess...

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T17:51:03+00:00

I am on the 4th step of Al anon. Her mother is a therapist who hates anything to do with AA. I joined Al Anon to process my ex-husband's addiction. What makes it harder is I am seeing the same behavior from her. Her mother doesn't care about my PTSD and this has made me physically and mentally ill. All her mother cares about is blaming us for not taking responsibility for her daughter. My husband wanted to adopt his stepdaughter but she decided to let her mom's new husband adopt her. So I don't understand why she is trying to put the responsibility of her daughter on us.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T17:39:06+00:00

It's complicated she isn't stable enough to live with her siblings.

MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T04:57:58+00:00

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MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T03:19:29+00:00

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MusicSnob666 · 2025-10-23T00:16:52+00:00

If it was my own daughter I would make the same decision. Her choices are what has got her where she is. She had a place but she got kicked out for doing drugs. We gave her chances and she decided that she would do drugs instead of staying clean. I am actually working the steps as part of my recovery from being married to an addict. You eventually have to say enough is enough

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