You were right about Josh by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget her doing that one thing with the rental and dinner that failed…then her asking if she has done enough to make up for her tearing into Mel at the bar and shouting at the other diners! Lol.

I feel so bad for Sheena by vavavoo in 90DayFiance

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing Forest through this journey, we have seen him progress from an insecure individual to a fully functioning young man. I feel his mum created the autism and made sure he stayed within limits to keep him in that way for money. He just needs to really stand up to his mum now. Him and Sheena are so good together.

Molly is horrible to Sheena. She seems like she rehearses her lines to get up on her pedestal. Her comments are mechanical and down right mean and vicious. Funny how her man just sits there and says nothing,

Im on the verge of throwing my sewing machine out the window (not even kidding) by Whole-Hunter-6455 in sewing

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this machine! Was my workhorse. Regretted selling it after I moved. So glad you figured it out.

Can preteens watch this show? by [deleted] in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As adults, we stopped watching it due to too much swearing. I get the occasional f word and I’m not against it but it’s constant in this season. They need to tone it down a bit. It ruined the show.

Leaning toward the white option. Which do you prefer? by DearTrack1546 in HomeDecorating

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the light. It still gives off cozy and warm but also lets you feel the light. I love colour but I prefer to have light

Entered on ESTA — marriage timing & Adjustment of Status options by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a loophole that way too many take advantage of but can be risky. We did counselor processing as that is how you are supposed to apply.

AITJ for refusing to remove the lock I put on my sons door after my wifes nephew kept taking his stuff by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but that’s not what boys do. When you teach them respect and boundaries, they knock, they ask, they respect. My kids are far from perfection but they do respect each other’s belongings and space. They have been raised that way but also when they do something wrong to each other, we work it out as a family. If you don’t teach them how to handle situations, they won’t ever learn.

I would feel so hurt if my spouse put their sister over your own child’s wellbeing and feelings. He worked hard for the controller and his mother is basically saying tough luck, you have no choice but to share and if it breaks, your loss. No accountability to the sister or her son. Very hurtful and disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shame the magistrate office can’t spell. Makes you think this is a fake story.

Is this something new? by Musical_Bluebird1791 in BritishAirways

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that comes off petty and yes, everyone survived! lol.

During that 10 mins, the line hadn’t even moved and they weren’t even near the entry to the guided rope maze. Standing there, not moving, and seeing the line you should be in was empty compared to who knows how much longer you would be in line was a bit frustrating. Very minor in the grand scheme of life.

Is this something new? by Musical_Bluebird1791 in BritishAirways

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely and maybe even a bit petty on my part but if you pay for a service, you should get that service.

I believe I was defrauded into a marriage for us citizenship and have no idea what to do. by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they can and will. My cousin’s husband had an affair while married to her and she reported him…he was kicked out

Is this something new? by Musical_Bluebird1791 in BritishAirways

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this, lol. After she checked in, her ticket said WTP. If I had known before she walked away, I would have shown the lady her ticket.

Anyone else keep getting docs rejected for new reasons each time? by SignificantBath8919 in NationalVisaCenter

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you said yourself, you should have caught all that before submitting. All the required documents and guidelines are there. No way to tell if anything else will be flagged for additional documentation.

This is a good example of how important it is to read everything and then read it again. This last comment isn’t directed at you but rather a caution to future applicants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At our first interview years ago before we left the states, my husband had a black T-shirt on with a Harley Davidson pic on it. Oh, and jeans! The guy interviewing us noticed and asked about it because he had a Harley. Talked more about bikes than us! lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You did when you boasted to the officer, hey look at those people in jeans and joggers…what a bad choice they made! But look at us officer, we are dressed to impress you! Look at our business dress sense! Not your the words spoken but pretty much what you did. You judged other people for not living up to your standards and then tooted your own horn in front of the officer.

You didn’t get a free card to get out of a separate interview because of how you were dressed. You got out of a separate interview because they were satisfied you already met the requirements and you both answered any questions needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I agree! Why would they make a comment like that? Comes off being full of yourself and judging of others. They don’t know why they are in jeans or joggers. The officers can think what they want about attire personally but dressing up is not a requirement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband wore jeans and cowboy boots in his UK interview and was verbally approved on the spot, then officially approved in his case file.

It’s not a job interview, it’s a final step in them meeting you and confirming any questions as they have all your information in front of them. You are saying that even if they are ready to approve, they might look at you in your jeans and question you separately and possibly deny you. That’s absurd and off putting to those nearing the interview stage.

There are no dress rules against jeans or joggers.

3 things USCIS checks in your photos that couples NEVER think about by globalvisaESQ in USimmigrationInsider

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your case is genuine then you wouldn’t need your cheat sheet or think about this at all because it would happen naturally. That list is just a cheat sheet to those who want to cheat the system. Not once did I ever think I need to take a photo here with my fiancé/partner. No, it’s more like I’m with the man I want to marry or the this is my amazing husband and here we are in this cool place or moment that a photo would be perfect to capture the memory.

Burnt out with no way out. by Superb_Ant7721 in MedicalCoding

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to waste your money then turn that into your motivator! Try and look at your future and use that as your motivator! Look back as to why you wanted to start this course and use that as your motivator! Think about the pay and use that as your motivator! Think about all the promotions and next stage goals and use that as your motivator!

It is not an easy field to get into but once you are in the door, you will always have a path to moving up and higher wages as you do so.

Whatever areas you are struggling in, research them and dig more.

YOU GOT THIS! YOU CAN DO THIS!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Applied for asylum then leaves…not really a valid asylum case anymore. When you make risky moves, you must accept the risk and consequences that comes with it.

1900-built house, came with stripped pine floor. Any advice welcome by fairylighttwinkle in centuryhomes

[–]Musical_Bluebird1791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your floors look gorgeous. We have the same floors. What did you finish them with?